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Thread: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

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    Default Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    So I have been gaming this girl for about a week now and I have already kissed her. She invited me over to her place but then canceled last minute with a text stating and I quote, "I cant hangout today, I have a family dinner. I have to be honest with you about something. I am dealing with a break-up right now and its really hard. I really like you and maybe in the future we can have a thing or hook up, whatever. But right now im really busy with some other stuff i need to take care of." I simply replied, "I understand. Its cool." and put it all behind me. The next day she texts me, "Hey. Im sorry for canceling plans im going through a lot right now. Whatcha up to?" now im like WHAT?! didn't she end this yesterday? What do you guys make of this? should I just move on?

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    Default Re: Girls are farking confusing! I need advice

    "Next" this one..............
    Too much drama.


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    Default Re: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    Thanks I was thinking the same thing

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    Default Re: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    Idk man, clearly she's crazy yes, but see if you can get her to come talk to you about her problems. She gets emotional, you console her, yada yada yada, you know the rest. That's if you want to get the lay, if not, just leave it

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    Default Re: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    I agree girls can be confusing but that's merely a means to an end. How were you responding when she invited you over is the really big question. Cuz if you were being needy guaranteed why she flipped out on you.

    It's so hard to get girls talking even harder to hang out. So definitely keep talking to her ABOUT hanging out. Dude don't freaking drop her when she is sitting there initiating that sh!t is hard to come by. It was obviously a sh!t test. If she does the same thing like that 3 times in a row call her on it. Until then hang out, hook up, and have fun.

    Oh and one more thing "all women are crazy" for me nexting won't help, the "next girl" will do the same dang crap or worse. They think differently than us. So next time you get the psychotic behavior stop yourself and remember "sh!t test" it will help you from hitting the panic button I think. No need to be confused women are hard to predict. So stop trying to predict them and go with the flow. You recognize patterns after a while that's why thinking a "new girl" will fix it is NOT always the answer.
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    Default Re: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    No need to hit fast forward and move on just yet, just hit the pause button. Your lucky she apologised and stated clearly whats happening in her life including her feelings for you. Otherwise you would be another guy threading 'she kissed me but now wont respond! Help!' haha. Just keep her in the loop and continue playing the field if you have others in the pipeline. A relationship doesn't end like returning a library book or cutting down a tree. It's a process.

    She says 'blah blah difficult time, things to sort out blah blah. Whatcha up to?'...just say 'No worries. I just cooked an awesome dinner/I'm heli skiing in France/I just wrote a novel/I just got a pay rise (whatever awesomeness it is)'. It's not a big deal so don't make it one. She likes you but is going through a break up. There's nothing really crazy or confusing about that. It's not like she had a leg amputated, scratched your car with a stanley knife or just went through 4 years of divorce court hearings.

    There's no reason to ditch her if you like her but also no reason to get your hopes up too high because it will take a bit for the ripples to settle. Water off a ducks back.

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    Default Re: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    Holy shit the weird thing is that I did exactly what your saying already. I told her, "No worries, I'm just hanging out with some friends." Alright I'll hit the pause button and see what happens. I got nothing to really lose right? She is not my focus right now.

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    Default Re: Girls are fucking confusing! I need advice

    Girls are very emotional creatures and what they say don't mean squat compared to what their actions entail. Game her and pull her to a sex location.


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