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Thread: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

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    Default How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    I met this girl at the end of the college semester before summer and we were pretty much together, i visited her and she visited me, met eachothers familys. But then we kind if fell off.

    One day when we were in bed she looked me in the eyes and told me shes done talking to her ex's.

    I found out shes been seeing her ex behind my back over the summer and shes with him now.

    I feel so heartbroken, its all i think about, i cant believe someone could do such a thing.

    I need help guys, idk how to get over this. I just want to dead her but im gonna see her around campus.

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    It just takes time.
    My ex pretty much did the same thing...

    So I just cranked up my game & found someone MUCH better & without the drama.


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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    I think this happens as a result of decisions we make. Ask yourself why you ended up w her. The answers will tell you how ot avoid future women like her.

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    Don't let yourself get more attached to a woman than that woman is attached to you. If you do this, it will help you keep the girls you want around and it will make things easier when they fall apart.

    Chateau Heartiste puts it best when he says to always make decisions as if you have an entire harem at your disposal.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    Had to look up this chaateau guy and website- its a cesspool of impotent racism and unbridled nonsense built up about race and racial differences. Who cares.

    Some good points though, beta talk is shit.

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    It's a website built mostly on game. There's a lot of good advice on there, but you have to sift through some crap.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    Sometimes the best revenge is moving on, and finding someone else. That helps you to get over her much quicker. Tell yourself you can do better, and if you see her again just ignore her. It's her loss, and from what you say she doesn't deserve your thoughts or attention.

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    Channel all that energy towards something constructive. You have a lot of energy potential that's bringing you down, but you can turn that around and use that as killer motivation to game and find 10 other hotter girls than your ex and become the best version of yourself.
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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    thanks guys, its just hard to rationalize what happened, i just dont understand how someone can do that...it hurts.

    im gonna try to focus all of this energy on school and come out on top this semester

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    Default Re: How to get over being played, betrayed, and left to dry.

    School or work is a good route to keep busy but do not forget that you should still interact with other people especially new people. This is important so you expand potential. When you start to see more possibilties you tend to not focus on the past that might haunt you. So meet new people. Game everybody. You will overcome it not through time or trial and error but by expanding your horrizons.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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