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Thread: Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot?

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    Default Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot?

    Met a girl today. she's not hot but I have never had a relationship before not even sex. I'm 28. She's an hb5 with an hb8 body. Amazing body-like D cup. She was overtly showing herself off tome, especially when she leaned over with her cleavage. I just looked and feasted my eyes on it. I'm pretty sure she knew. She had seen me the day before and today came back even hotter so I went up to her and talked.

    Got her number, no plans made (im still not there yet). This girl was super awkward and shy and uncomfortable (probably very insecure due to her average appearance). I don't care though- I would love to hook up with her and go out and not have any long term goals with her.

    Is this an appropriate mindset- ie shes not my level but whatever, I just want to get it over with having sex with someone and know what its like to be intimate and in bed and doing all the things I fantasize.

    I also feel like this will help me with confidence- ie I finally know hwat its all about. And will help me move forward.

    What do you guys think? Or am I wrong to be with her?

    i ask because Mark Manson says to go below your level or date someone you dont find attractive is desperation. This girl is not ugly-she's attractive enough. Also I want to apologize for my language- I dont mean to diminish women or disparage them. And I'm sorry for that. Just dont know how else to convey these points.

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    Default Re: Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot

    EVERY guy has had a 5. Anyone who says they've only slept with 9's & 10's is a liar.


    So don't over-think it.
    And its all up to YOU, not anyone else.
    Nobody's opinion but your own matters here.

    Just be forewarned that many girls do get emotionally attached when they sleep with a guy, especially if they're inexperienced.
    So you don't wanna lead her on thinking you want long term, if that's not what your plan is.
    Be honest about your intentions up front.

    But otherwise, there's no problem with this scenario.


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    Default Re: Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot

    Ok so how do I be honest? Do i tell her after we kiss or before? How do I tell her? Do I let her bring it up? What can I say? Can you or anyone walk me through this step by step.

    I really really dont want to mislead her. At the same time I dont want to say- I want sex because titties.

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    Default Re: Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot

    If both of you guys attracted to each other, there is nothing wrong with that. Do whatever that makes you happy.
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    Default Re: Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot

    Most people say they arent lookingfor anything serious after the incitial close. No reason to do it anytime after that. Keep it simple.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Met a girl at library today. Got number...worth dating if she's not hot

    I'm with my friend T-Mal on this. If you like her go out with her no matter what anyone else says. Dude, life is too short to worry about what other people say besides no matter what you do you can never make everyone like you so why bother pretending someone you're not? To do stuff that you don't like with people you hate? Plus, hot body beats hot face any day of the week in my book. Tell her you're a virgin the first night you're going to sleep with her it'll give her more sexual confidence and make the night better for you. However, that is not an excuse for you to not be dominant in bed. Grab her,throw her, bite her, scratch her, spank her, pull her hair and pound her. Get all those 28 years of sexual frustration out on her man. As for the not wanting anything serious bit, why is it you think she does? When the time comes and she asks you if this is something more than sex be honest say you like her, which you obviously do, but say you don't want to commit right now and ask her to respect your decision and respect hers whatever it may be.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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