So I was on tinder and met a girl who we have been texting on and off. She's far- 2 hours and now she's moving to Cali for a few months. I jokingly suggested skyping- but I figured we'd skype a week later. This was last week. our texts are always funny light and fun. She enjoys texting me, and i always make sure at least one post is sexual every so often.
Today in the morning before she was going to sleep (shes a nurse on the night shift) she wanted to skype. like really really bad. I didnt, because 1 im at my parents for the weekend and 2. I dont want to wake them up and 3. because I woke up and want to do other shit.
Well, anyway I acquiesed. I was going to skype on my phone and while we were doing it I didnt realize how loud the speaker is- so after a few minutes i said I had to go because my parents are waking up. they weren't i just didnt want them to hear my convo.
Anyway it was awkward- one because it was sudden and 2 because I hated doing it. but I get the feeling she was horny because of my texts and wanted to skype to see me. I wasn't in the mood because I really didnt want to early in the morning. Also I was a bit insecure about how I looked on the phone. I closed on her and said we'll do it later and she kept saying how busy she was.
I told her by text I was sorry it was early in the morning and I didnt want to seem like I was avoiding her so I skyped. But we really should this night. ( I didnt even have my alpha voice on because I didnt want my parents hearing- there's so much pressure to skype properly that it kinda took away my ability to have a good conversation).
What can I do to avoid these situations. What can I say to her to make these conversations fun? I hate skyping honestly because you cant make it sexual because you cant touch them- and its not like I'm sitting here turning her on by just talking.
There has to be something canned I can do for the first 5 minutes to make it interesting and then go from there.