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    HenryChristie42 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So like, about big dicks...

    Hey guys,

    Made a funny title that would get attention, but still focused on the topic. Let me preface this post with a disclaimer: I am a random guy on the internet, with a random screen name, and this post is not about bragging because it's a random internet thread. It's about advice, and if anything in the below pisses you off then shut the fuck up and move on to the next thread.

    So now that that's out of the way here's my story.

    I was a super tall and skinny computer dork back in the day. Huge glasses, zits, and I loved final fantasy and world of warcraft. I had horrible skin and smelled bad and was a jerk to people and actually thought that I could only get girls if I had muscles. I was a legitimate stereotype completely blinded by myself.

    Fortunately I'm a Cinderella story showing what can happen when you start taking care of yourself. I started working out, got rid of the glasses, and started trying to mack on woman after my buddy showed me the game book. It turns out my height is a good thing, and some chicks like skinny. It's amazing but after being an f-close virgin for 25 years I had sex for the first time about a year ago, and it's been rolling in ever since. Life is good.

    I would take girls home and have all the physical things memorized but things always ended up with f-closes so I thought that physical things were just so easy. Anyways, there is one thing that every girl has said to me. It's along the lines of, "Wow, your dick is huge." I thought at first these girls were being polite but I slowly realized, after not being able to fit it in an Asian girl, that they might actually be telling the truth. I realized that any girl that actually felt my dick when we were making out has had sex with it, and the girl I'm hooking up with now goes to a pretty great extent to show me I'm huge, going far enough to show me a convo she had with her friend when we first started hooking up where she told her friend "BIGGEST DICK EVER" that she never intended to show me.

    Now naturally I am psyched to be putting these pieces together, but I'm also a little bummed. I mean I can't come right out and say, "hey, yeah I have a huge dick." My game is solid, but this is an asset that is being underutilized right now. Does anyone here have any ideas on how to drop your size into the conversation in a way that doesn't sound like you're trying to overcompensate?

    HMan

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    Default Re: So like, about big dicks...

    Orgams are mental too even for men. My first time was about 3 years ago with a chick older than me. We had sex, it was fun but i never came. Prolly too much porn. Anyways the more sex i had afterwards the more i became comfortable and able to release. And when i say comfortable i mean being able to zone out and focus on releasijg rather than focusing on the girl or how good i was doing or whatever.

    My advice would be when you're looking for the climax just focus on that. If its going to cause the girl pain then just take it slow. Sometimes a girl will let you get rough so you can release too so just check with her. But i find it really goof to just focus on the pleasure and texture while having sex. Have fun and experiment.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: So like, about big d1cks...

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Orgams are mental too even for men. My first time was about 3 years ago with a chick older than me. We had sex, it was fun but i never came. Prolly too much porn. Anyways the more sex i had afterwards the more i became comfortable and able to release. And when i say comfortable i mean being able to zone out and focus on releasijg rather than focusing on the girl or how good i was doing or whatever.

    My advice would be when you're looking for the climax just focus on that. If its going to cause the girl pain then just take it slow. Sometimes a girl will let you get rough so you can release too so just check with her. But i find it really goof to just focus on the pleasure and texture while having sex. Have fun and experiment.
    Art I don't think you read the whole post. The sex I've been having is great, I don't really like the Asian anyways. I'm looking to see how I may be able to create sexual tension and help my escalation by bringing up my d1ck

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    Default Re: So like, about big dicks...

    I read it. Just thought you wanted advice on one thing instead of another. Its not directly helpful but in prinicple it still applies. The first half of your post it says a lot of what your problem is. My original advice still applies because you have inner game issues. To be worried about your size doesnt matter if its too big or too small. Its all about how you handle it. Like sex if you can't make it fun then it won't be. When you bring up the size or your member it should be playful--acknowledge it but its not about the size--its about your level of intimacy and connection. When she sees that you can be fun and great to be around and can translate that sexualy the bettter of a chance she's not likely to make it an issue. Only you can make it a big problem by thinking its a bigger problem. You seem to focus too much on succeeding and avoidig failure which is very similar to what i was saying in regards to climaxing interestingly enough. Have fun with it. Make it a game. Make it a ioke. Make it a good time. Sure bring it up as a disclaimer but be playful about it. Its should be harmless fun. Pain can be pleasurable too. If it really is too big no big deal--its about how you handle it. Talk through it and carry your verbal game to still be interesting and fun so she doesnt care about the size she cares about having fun with you so she can still enjoy the sex or working to escalating to sex. This all sounds like fluff and not useful but its about building the right infastructure in your mental state to be able to handle how to deal with the possibilties of how a woman can precieve the problem. A girl will acknowledge the size if its a problem but if she's into you she'll let youget away with a lot of things if she's into you. So don't let her judge things too fast or too quickly by being the best version of yourself. What you have as your weakness can be your strength. Take it from a guy who is asian who has a regularly sized penis. There are a lot of assumptions alone by just being asian with a penis. Stereotypes exist for a reason but its all about how you handle them. Its a mental inner game that you need to reflect externally not only to show confidence but to be able to enjoy your time because you choose to. When you handle things poorly because the size of your member its because you can't get out of your head. It doesnt matter about it being her biggest or smallest its all about being present with her and making the most of it. Be playful and like sex focus on the good. Go for exciting and memorable by showing your personality through your sexuality. Don't go all caveman and beg her to continue to just have sex. Acknowledge your size and say you know how to work with it as anyone would be scared with something as big or as small. She has expectations about sizes--so what. Show her that her expectations dont matter because you're goin to make it about connecting with some one intimately in bed rather than just put her through a crap ton of pain because of the size of your penis.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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