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    Default really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    I was supposed to meet hb9 tomorrow but she's all turned on me. she was really horny for me even this morning we talked about sex and everything. she's sent pics of herself nude.

    i told her i wanted to have lots of sex and hold off on emotions and she said she wants to sit and get to know me first. what happened? why the sudden change?

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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    please anyone. im confused as to how to fix this. Just sunday she wanted to come see me. I had to refuse because i live with m parents. I'm really confused about whats happened. Its like she got cold feet all of a sudden.

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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    You're sounding desperate & needy here... I can just imagine how you're coming across to this particular girl.

    She was into you... then you refused to meet her (because you live with your parents.)
    She probably thinks you're flaky.

    (That was my girlfriend's assessment of this situation)

    Yes, I ask my girlfriend for input on certain things occasionally, and this was one of them. She knows that I study & teach PUA / Social Dynamics.

    Does she know you live with your parents?


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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    I know but just last night we texted each other- more like sexted. This morning we talked about anal sex and the things she wanted me- in the morning she said she wanted my hot you know what in her face. I mean we were really horny.

    I think things changed when i said I want a lot of sex but I wont be emotionally available for a while. I think somewhere reading this she got scared and decided I dont want a real relationship or I just want to bang her. She has a kid and I think she may be using sex to get a relationship

    The other possibilty is- she never intended to come over and was just saying that to get me horny. And she never intended all this sex stuff and backed off today to force me to see here on her terms (like a bait and switch).

    Its one of these two things.

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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    I doubt I'm coming across desperate. Definitely extremely horny. But not desperate.

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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    Or...
    She didn't like the thought of being used for sex.
    That's pretty much what you said your thoughts of her were.

    Women speak a different language than men.
    What you "said" & what she "heard" are likely totally different.


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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    Should I call her out on these things at all?

    What should I text her tonight if at all about this.

    Should I just leave it at that and go see her and see what happens? Should I bring it up at all in person?

    I kind of need to know since she is far away- about an hour. What was a sure thing about sex has kind of turned on me.

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    Default Re: really need your help. how to turn this around- basically farked it up

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Or...
    She didn't like the thought of being used for sex.
    That's pretty much what you said your thoughts of her were.

    Women speak a different language than men.
    What you "said" & what she "heard" are likely totally different.
    But how about her own responses then?

    All my comments to her have been extremely sexual but she has responded in kind sending sexual comments.

    Was it just that last comment I made about saying I want a lot of sex but not much emotion? Is that what she didnt like?

    How can i turn this around then to offer her something more without misleading her?

    Should I have left it ambiguous? I thought I was being open and honest...


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