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    Default Here's an approach...how i can improve it?

    SO today I saw this super pretty girl on campus. She was sitting alone, and I decided to approach her:

    ME: Hey I see you everywhere, are you following me. (I sit beside her)
    Her: (laugh) yes maybe
    ME: I'm Jhon
    Her: I'm x
    Me: (I make a sarcastic comment about her)
    Her: she tells me that she really have to go to class
    Me: do you remember my name
    Her: yes it's jhon.
    Me: that's cool your remember, x. listen, you seem a cool person. How about we exchange numbers and you will be my school partner in crime.
    Her: she smiles and say maybe I'll see you around and she leaves.

    This is was my 1st approach since a while. any idea what went wrong?
    1)I'm thinking maybe i should be more flirting with her rather than just making funny comments? I don't flirt often. what would you guys do to flirt with a girl. I don't want to say you're cute. I feels that's boring lol
    2) maybe I should have qualified her? any example how i can qualify a girl in this case?
    3) also I noticed toward the begining she was talking to me but still playing on her phone a little. So since she wasn't looking at me, i wasn't looking too much toward her. is this the right way to deal with this behavior?
    4) i will listen to other critiques thanks

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    Default Re: Here's an approach...how i can improve it?

    You probably just jumped the gun on going for the number, but you didn't get blown out.

    Just playfully accuse her of stalking you next time you see her & tell her "Don't make me get campus security involved"... with a wink & smile.

    You can also say something like "Cool shoes" or "That's a cool necklace" or whatever.
    Complimenting a girl on her fashion sense will spark her interest, because girls are into that & most guys never mention it.

    Being "flirty" just means being fun".
    Tease & banter with her... razz her a bit & playfully give her a hard time. (Nicknames like "dork, brat, sassy-pants," etc. are great for that.)

    Seriously, all you have to do is project a FUN vibe, & girls will be naturally curious about you & want to know more.


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    Default Re: Here's an approach...how i can improve it?

    Good open you got her to laugh and slightly play into the frame of her following you. What was the sarcastic comment you said? She may have been busy and in a rush to get to class so you can walk with her and game her. Qualify her by asking what she is studying and how she likes that, what her passions or dreams are, if she is not going after her dreams and just settled for what she is pursuing now, ask why, etc.
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    Default Re: Here's an approach...how i can improve it?

    Thank you T-mal. I never thought about complementing a girl about her sense of fashion. I will try that next time!

    "You probably just jumped the gun on going for the number, but you didn't get blown out."

    I thought if I didn't ask her for the number, I might not see her again and lose her forever (my school is very large). so, i decided to give it a shot and ask for her digits? and I'm surprised by your comment that I didn't get blown out because I thought this girl don't want to talk to me anymore.

    WillEdward: thanks. It's been a while for this interactiong, so I don't remember what was my sarcastic comment exactly. All I remember that I made her laugh. walking with her is a good idea, but wouldn't that be creepy as well? lol what should I say to go with her without being awkward: "I actually have a little time to kill, you seem fun and I like that. you mind if I walk with you to the class"?


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