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    fredyyy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Learn from my mistakes, and give me an advice

    SO, these are some interesting moments I came across last weekend:
    I hope to hear some advices of how I should react in the future:

    1)situation 1: pool party:
    me: so what are you celebrating?
    her: my life
    me: what about your life that make it worth celebrating? (with a smile)
    her: I'm celebrating my existence
    me: hmm cool lol

    so this girl was kinda funny, but very cocky. What would be a good come back in this case?

    2) situation 2: waiting in line to get into a bar
    me: (talking to a group of hot girls) So let's make all one group. it will consist of this hot guy (pointing at myself) with this fashionable girls (pointing at them)
    couple girls laugh and one girl says: hmmm not sure about that.
    me: not sure? ok forget it then. you lost your chance.

    I know this is girl was messing with me, I don't know why i got mad. So next time i learned that i should ALWAYS keep my cool. What would be a good come back when a girl also playing hard like this one I encountered?

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    Default Re: Learn from my mistakes, and give me an advice

    Girl one sounds like she was shit testing and likes attention/confrontration. I would respond with a "sounds exciting" in a KIND sarcastic manner and move on to others to DHV for the rest of the party. Coming back later and asking how "existence" is going would probably get a pretty good response.

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    Default Re: Learn from my mistakes, and give me an advice

    When the first girl said she was celebrating her existence, you could have said, "Ahhhh nice. I'll drink to that! Cheers! You seem to have a zest for life... at least that's the sort of vibe I'm getting from you... I like that. And I'm thinking you're most likely the one in your group of friends who always enjoys the more adventurous stuff... right?" *wink/smile

    The cold/read & qualifiers have a way of hooking girls with a great success rate.

    The 2nd scenario you were just coming off as trying too hard. You expressed neediness & being too eager.

    You could have said something like "Heeeeyyyyy! You girls look like you know how to have a great time. You're giving off a fun vibe already... Very cool. I may have to check up on you in a bit & see if I'm right. Or... are you really just lame, stick-in-the-mud kinda girls, who have no clue about having fun?" *wink smile

    Again... cold read / qualifier.

    Those sort of comments are likely to get girls to chase YOU.



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    Default Re: Learn from my mistakes, and give me an advice

    You should play along with the girl that was celebrating her life. Celebrate with her and add to the fun vibe and energy. Your open with the 2nd set was a little cheesy and cocky. Go indirect with a group like that and build off of that.
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    fredyyy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Learn from my mistakes, and give me an advice

    jorgensenmrs & WillEdward: Thank you I learned a lesson for the future.
    T-mal: your responses were outstanding!!! I wish time goes back now lol


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