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    tattooedmagician is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help reducing flakes.

    last week a picked up a HB9 I got her number without much effort. I sent her a picture of myself riding a jackalope so I would be memorable . (its a long story on how I got the picture) I waited 3 days to text her invite her out for drinks with my friends. It has been about 3 days with out a reply.
    My question is did I not hook her good enough in the initial interaction or did I wait too long to contact her?

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    Default Re: Help reducing flakes.

    Definitely waited too long to text.
    You may also not have built enough attraction to solidify a "date" at that point.


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    Default Re: Help reducing flakes.

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Definitely waited too long to text.
    You may also not have built enough attraction to solidify a "date" at that point.
    I was following Kezia Noble's 3 day rule for contact, what would you suggest for next time? and I framed it as more of a non treating hang out with my pivot and her BF not really a date, I am sure that I will see her again the city I live is isn't too big. How should I go about reengaging her ? or is there any DC I can do this point? Thanks

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    Default Re: Help reducing flakes.

    I think Kezia has a TON of great info... but I disagree with the "3 day rule".

    If a girl gives you her number, she probably WANTS to hear from you. And to wait 3 days is wasting time with building attraction, and it gives every other guy a head start in getting her attention.

    Most girls also prefer to go out 1 on 1 at first, rather than hang out with someone else's friends. Not all, but most.

    At least that's the experience I've had in the past.

    I would basically start from square one & start initiating contact & get the interaction going. Don't push too son for a meet up, but rather, take a couple days to flirt over text & build a fun vibe so that when you DO ask her out, she's more likely to agree.



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    Default Re: Help reducing flakes.

    What would be the best way to start over? I don't want to text her again for fear of coming off needy. How ever I don't want to have to get lucky and run into her at the right time again.

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    Default Re: Help reducing flakes.

    Read through my list of magic texts.
    Those are designed to spark interest & cause a girl to WANT to respond.

    They're fun & playful... Girls can't help but get hooked to that sort of vibe.


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