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    Default Ben Franklin Effect?

    Hey guys,

    Has anyone had any explicit success utilizing the ben franklin effect?

    Its when you ask someone to do something for you, something as small as grabbing a glass of water for you, or something a little bigger. The idea is that the mind would tell you that you like the person if you are doing something for them, and it supposedly makes it easier to "befriend" and possibly build attraction.

    Curious for success stories,

    Jorg

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    Default Re: Ben Franklin Effect?

    It sounds similar to a "Yes Ladder"... which is when you use little suggestions to get a girl to comply/agree with you, thus making it easier to lower her defense shield.

    Little fantasy role-playing scenarios work well for that.
    Example: You say something like, "We're friends now... and you're gonna be my body guard. Your job is to keep the weirdos away from me. Got it? Can you handle that?"

    She'll most likely say "Yeah, OK!" or something to that effect.

    Then, a few momets later after a little ore teasing/bantering:
    "Wow, you're soooo much fun! We're totally gonna move to Jamaica & set up a hut on the beach selling t-shirts. You'll be the model & I'll be the salesman... we'll make millions!"

    Again, she's probably gonna buy into your frame & play along.

    A couple things like that will make her interaction with you FUN. She'll be less likely to give resistance when you "ask her out" by saying, "OK, that's it. We totally have to hang out sometime. I know a place that has the BEST margaritas in town. Roll with me this Friday."

    Personally, I think THIS way would be more effective than asking a girl to "do something" for you... at least in the beginning.

    But you ARE on the right track.


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    Default Re: Ben Franklin Effect?

    Has anyone had any explicit success utilizing the ben franklin effect?

    Its when you ask someone to do something for you, something as small as grabbing a glass of water for you, or something a little bigger. The idea is that the mind would tell you that you like the person if you are doing something for them, and it supposedly makes it easier to "befriend" and possibly build attraction.
    actually yes.

    building compliance is always a valuable tool (because ultimately sex is just a compliance test.)

    having people do things for you will get them used to complying for you.

    I like to make woman (especially girlfriends) do things for me.

    for instance if a girls going to my fridge to get a drink, i'll tell her "while you're up, grab me a beer"

    or if I'm driving, I might tell the girl to change the radio station or to change the cd we're listening to.

    if I come home from work all sore I would have my girlfriend give me a back rub.

    the key to it all is simple, don't ask people to do things for you, tell them to do things for you.

    so instead of saying

    "would you please cook me dinner tonight"

    say

    " I want you to cook for me."
    or
    "I'm cooking shrimp tonight, come be my kitchen helper."

    building compliance is what shows her that you are dominant.

    eventually you might even go as far as to say something like,

    "I'm having my friend gina over tonight, I want you to fark her with me"

    or

    "I'm feeling really horny tonight, I want you to give me some good head tonight"

    the possibilities are endless, as long as you start small and work you're way up to the bigger stuff.


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