Hey Fellas, Question for the Pro's.
Ladies I meet lately tell me I am rude, and a jerk. Thats the problem.
Background: Wouldnt say I am a natural, nor bad with women. I read the game once. I have a relatively high number of women 70+, while this last 3 years has been I have been with 6 women. I have what seems like more lady friends than guy friends. I work in LA as an actor, I have developed nerves of steel, im clean cut, muscular, articulate and educated and make most of my money doing prank phone calls and working at a comedy club. The truth is I think I am busting their balls and my last intention is to hurt their feelings, I always consider myself to nice. I really havent been out in the last year to meet women, concentrating on myself.
Why Im looking: Im not interested in getting laid lately, I just really enjoy spending my time with beautiful women and seeing them laugh, kinda sappy but thats my favorite thing.
Last Night a woman I was on a date with said I was horribly rude, and an asshole before she kissed me. Told me I was way over confident, arrogant, and mean. That I am hard to talk to because I dont open up. I was shocked.
Tonight I met an amazingly beautiful woman who was a bit quiet and nervous, whom orbited our table. Before I left I asked if she wanted to get together another evening. She told me NO, quote said "Honestly you need to hear this, you are unattractively over confident, Childish, insulted my friend and me, I heard you do it, loud, you think you are funny. Im not trying to hurt your feelings but you need to hear this, women want to be complemented and you are just mean and arrogant." I tried to ask when I did these things. She said "dont cut me off. Thats what I mean." I just sort of walked away.
Its been frustrating because women in LA dont seem to talk and are nervous, though it shouldnt its starting to really bother me. Beautiful women telling me I am a jerk. This is becoming a regular thing. My lady friends always wonder why I am single because they always say I am so charming and funny.
Can someone fill me in on What The Fuck is going on?