After a couple months going out, here are all my questions. Many are yes/no. Thanks for any feedback.
1. Noticeable Boner
2. What to do with girl in Club
In line for the club the other day. HB7 was all over me. Time to enter the club. That's when I messed up. I pushed her away. And I walked home. Because I knew I couldn’t show her (or myself) a good time there. Reason: I don’t drink ($). Can’t dance.
Any tips on how to have fun in a club?
3. Opening Guys
Any preffered openers for making friends when going to a bar/nightclub alone? My default: “I’m out meeting people.” Problem, it’s a DLV.
4. Answering Girl’s questions
I always give joke answers
e.g. Where do you work?
“I’m an astronaut.”
I think this creates intrigue. If she responds well, I’ll reward her later with the real answer. Good?
5. Saying Hello
When I open should I be looking the girl in the eyes giving her lots of attention. Or should I be non-imposing, by perhaps not even looking at her when I say hello?
6. See You soon
The other night HB7 was all over me. I had to go for a bit. Considered two ways of saying “see you later.”
1) earnestly: e.g. This was fun talking to you. I want to hang out with you later.
2) Disinterestedly: reason –my value is so high you don’t mean much to men?
Opted for #2. Saw in her eyes she thought I was a choad for not making a move.
Is #1 better?
How much escalation should I do with a friend there?
How do I separate a girl from her friend for the makeout/pull?
8. Pulling too early
That HB7 from the line to the seemed DTF.
Should I have just said “lets get out of here” before even entering the club?
9. Personal Bar
What’s the best alcohol to have at your place for her?
When GIRL touches ME, how should I respond? Should I touch her back? Should I push her away?
What if girl catches me EXECUTING kino (mechanically as opposed to naturally?
Any kino advice for the absolute tips for the absolute incompetent?
11. Your wing is a creep
PUA’s teach us to tell girls good things about our friends. But if your wing is acting super creepy, and the girls is bothered, should you still defend him?
Went to a bootcamp where we were told “always STOP the girl.” Agreed?
13. My Favorite Tease
“You seem too innocent to be in a club like this.”
I also like, “I’m judging you.”
This is a cliché, but any really good defaults?
15. Letting Girl Know I Like Her
To what extent should I do this?
Have taken lessons. Watched a million hours of instruction on youtube. But still can’t dance. Any tips
17. Topics to avoid
I try to avoid work, religion, where her accent is from? Any others?
18. No out
I always get nervous about gaming a girl, say, in line for a club. Because what's she going to do? Get out of line? She can't reject me? Also, if she's harsh, everyone in line will see 15 min. of this girls rejecting me? Any thoughts on such scenarios?