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    Default A girl in my class.. (In field rapport & a need of help)

    Hello, i've just started to study, so i have 5 years in front of me with my classmates. Im the social and popular one in my class, no doubt (4 real). So basically, i've had a good eye for a girl in my class. Def. a HB9. Me, her and another pretty girl (Lets call her GIRL) from my class, we have our own little 3 man group.

    This is were the tricky part comes. Im a boy and of course i would tap them both, but the HB9 one.. well she's something different, and I'm pretty sure she got a good eye for me too. We always have these long eye contacts where we just smile at each other. We hold hands very short (This is new) when we walk through the dance floor when we are out clubbing, we sometimes (like 10-20 times a night) hold each other around the waist, neck, wrists, behind the lower back, you know the intimidate places.
    The first night out with our class (This was during the first introduction week, Started last thursday actually), we were out clubbing, and we sat together, she started building rapport by playing a game with me where we should mention some of our most awkward things we have done when we were younger. The rest of the week we went out clubbing every day (tradition in the introduction week), and we were always dancing together, sometimes close. We were both trying to get closer to each other, but each time we got too close we both backed off, smiled and made a "no no" wink with our pointing finger, telling each other that no it wouldn't happen, and this happened repeatedly. There was this guy from our class that pushed us together but we both backed off and smiled, even that guy can see seomthing is going on between me and her... Last thursday, I was about to leave the club, and me and her were only together with GIRL. GIRL went home first, and me and the HB9 were left together. I told her that i wanted to leave too very soon (eventually i stayed lol). She used 10 minutes were we sat down next to each other trying to convince me to stay, while she was tickling my shoulder. We were so close to kiss several times, but we turned both our heads a bit while we looked at each other, and at each others necks. She asked my what she had to do to make me stay and I was a bit silent and just looked at her. There was this tension that turned us both on, that feeling that we wanted each other but wouldn't allow ourselves to do it, because it might end up awkward since we have to go to the same class for the next 5 years :/ But yea, we continued the night and asked if i could crash at her place, but she said she didn't have space, living on a couch in her small room. lol but she asked me right before she went home if we had a deal the day after eating frozen yogurt. The cab driver told me that I should't worry and that it looked like she's still up, but that she probably needed more rapport and had to open up (yea he have read the game too lmao).

    This all ends up to yesterday.. I am the popular kid, (I make music, i DJ, I guest dj'ed every time we were out clubbing lmao, so people were pretty much around me all the time. When I danced with other girls, she always came and pulled me away (sometimes I allowed her too, sometimes i didtn't), and when she danced with other guys (damn she likes the attention, thats something I'm afraid of too that I'm just being played), she always had this permission seeking face and was always looking for me to come dance with her.
    I ordered this huge ass table at a nightclub in my town and i invited her and GIRL, and they came and joined us. Me being there as the social king, they asked me to go out and have a smoke. Then during the convo outside, a guy comes up to our 3 man group and asks me if he could be my wingman, and he tries to push him into our group. I tell him I'm good and I fly alone. Both of the girls laugh and touches me on my arms, and the guy leaves immediately (I'm proud of that one). Then later that night they drag me out again, and then the HB9 asks me if I'm one of those guys who just takes a girl home and the says "fuck you" when I'm done with her (What does this mean, what is her intentions of this question??). My answer is, no if the girl is sweet, then I'm not that type of guy, but ofcouse I'm a guy, but it really depends on the situation, i tell her. Then GIRL says "No he's a sweet boy, he won't do stuff like that", then i say "Thats right!.. and sweet boys sleeps at this time *Winking to HB9", while she giggles a bit. The third time we were out smoking, GIRL says that she's going to the toilet, I'm sure she wanted us to stay alone together, but then HB9 started to laugh a bit and it ended up with all of us going inside and dance.

    I just don't know how to understand what she wants from all of her behavior. That question she asked me is turning my world upside down, because now Im 99% sure she's into me, maybe she sees me as boyfriend material, but she (aswell as I am) is afraid it its going to be awkward if it doesn't go well.

    Im thinking of waiting to next weekend and see if I can kiss her with the excuse of being drunk? Or maybe confront her when its quiet, just me and her, and tell her I have a good eye for her and Im sure she has a good eye for me too, but that we both worried about how its going to be if its not going to go between us, and that its something that should stay between us two, and see how it works out?

    Or should I ask GIRL what HB9 wants, and maybe tell GIRL I got a good eye for HB9?

    What should I do, I'm so confused, normally i have the situation under control, but this girl is just perfect and I don't wanna screw it up. Also what do you think of it all? How does it look like, am I right on my observations or?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: A girl in my class.. (In field rapport & a need of help)

    Just make a move already...
    Don't blame it on being drunk....
    Make a move & kiss her because you WANT to.

    If she asks why you kissed her, tell her the truth. "Because I wanted to kiss you... Now shut up & kiss me again".

    Then wink & smile & pull her in for another kiss.

    Stop pussyfooting around.


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    Default Re: A girl in my class.. (In field rapport & a need of help)

    I could easily do that, no worries there. It's just that the consequences of a no here is bigger than if it was a girl i've met during a night out, eh?

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    Default Re: A girl in my class.. (In field rapport & a need of help)

    That's the risk you have to be willing to take, if you want to avoid the friend zone


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    Default Re: A girl in my class.. (In field rapport & a need of help)

    Thanks! Anyone else got more help?


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