I have known this girl for a few months now. I initially wanted to date her but mistakenly friend zoned myself. I have been trying routines on her to get myself out of that box.
The biggest problem is she never picks up her phone and takes close to a day to answer messages. At a point I gave up and even deleted her number. .. then she is the one who started coming after me asking for catchups. .. I am a newbie so I haven't been very good at kino escalation. She has texted me again asking for a catch up and I don't want to respond until am sure of how to handle the meetup. She seems like a tester denier based on vin dicarlo categorization. I believe she has many other guys on a leash and has a conservative upbringing. I can't figure if she is an idealist or realist coz she can be dreamy at times but generally very focused on her job and career. I did ask her her attraction strategy and she said she believes in falling in love slowly.
My question is how do I make it clear to that am not going to be one of her many guys on leash without being rude. I have also wanted to ask her what's up with the texting but I don't want to appear needy. ..
Thanks in advance