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Thread: Online response that made me shake my head...

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    Default Online response that made me shake my head...

    Me: "well I'm glad you're monogamous because I don't like to share my woman. But yeah I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment, so if you're in the same boat as well maybe we'll hangout"


    Her: "I get you don't want a long term relationship, but explain something to me... When you date someone n is not serious what exactly do you mean by that? When you write we can hangout..you mean like just friends right? Nothing physical? To me a none serious relationship means, if I'm dating someone for however long it last, no expectations of falling in-love or commitment. I do expect fidelity. You know what I mean? A monogamous relationship..lol I ask, cause for me a none committif I'm dating someone, for ho"

    Now, if I tell her yeah I just want friends, then I will be friendzoning myself, and if I tell her I want to go physical then it will sound needy and creepy. How I should response to this?
    I'm not interested in being in a relationship, I just want to find cuddle/fuck buddy.

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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    You gave waaaaay too much information right... AND you predefined the "relationship" (or lack thereof) right off the bat.

    You set yourself up for resistance from the get-go.


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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You gave waaaaay too much information right... AND you predefined the "relationship" (or lack thereof) right off the bat.

    You set yourself up for resistance from the get-go.
    Sorry T-mal, I didn't understand what you mean? The problem she asked me what I'm looking for from this dating site, so I didn't know how to run away from an answer.
    Here's the actually conversation if that helps:

    She asked me before: How long have you been single? If you don't mind me asking. What brought you to a dating site?

    Me: well I'm new in the area and I recently got out of a long term relationship. I want to enjoy life before I go into another relationship. we only live once. how about you

    Her: I was married for 7yrs, now I'm not..lol My job keeps me busy n I don't go out much. So you are just looking for someone to have fun without committing. That's nice. I hope you find what you are looking for. I'm not looking for marriage, nor to fall in-love, but when I date someone, I like it to be monogamous..

    Me: "well I'm glad you're monogamous because I don't like to share my woman. But yeah I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment, so if you're in the same boat as well maybe we'll hangout"

    Her: "I get you don't want a long term relationship, but explain something to me... When you date someone n is not serious what exactly do you mean by that? When you write we can hangout..you mean like just friends right? Nothing physical? To me a none serious relationship means, if I'm dating someone for however long it last, no expectations of falling in-love or commitment. I do expect fidelity. You know what I mean? A monogamous relationship..lol I ask, cause for me a none committif I'm dating someone, for ho"

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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    When she asked what brought you to a dating site, all you had to say was something like "I'm new in town & this seemed like an efficient way of meeting some people. "

    I personally would have avoided commenting on the parameters of the potential relationship at this point.
    Instead, I would have gone straight into flirting..

    "So how about you? I'm guessing you just enjoy getting bombarded with lame messages from clueless guys.. "

    Then continue to flirt and make silly assumptions to build curiosity & attraction.


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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    My response would be "learn English"
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    Lol!!
    I literally broke out in an air-laugh.
    Nice work, Duke!


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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    "To me a none serious relationship means, if I'm dating someone for however long it last, no expectations of falling in-love or commitment. I do expect fidelity."

    AKA

    "You bone me exclusively until You or I find someone else or gtfo"

    thats a pretty sweet deal , if she's hot . take it

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    Default Re: Online response that made me shake my head...

    Haha thanks T-mal and aleski23...the deal sounds good to me, so I'm gonna take it


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