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    LikeButter is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Second Lay Advice

    Situation: Met this girl online, got the first lay on the second date. Had a casual third date in public with intense kissing, kino, etc. Now I know I'm not done gaming her since I want to at least get the lay twice to "fully seal the deal".

    My question is, should I push for a second lay more quickly? Or should I just go with the flow, keep things light as I have been doing, and let the second lay fall into place? Here's some background info:

    Me: I'm 23, live at home (full-time student).
    Her: 26, also lives at home but works full-time. More of a "lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets" kind of girl. Very classy and conservative in public (not a fan of PUA, wont have sex in car, etc.)

    First lay: Invited her to my place when I was home alone. My parents are always home at night and don't go out anymore like they used to...so this one was all good timing. Within minutes there's heavy kino, intense kissing. I was expecting resistance but I obviously broke through it and I made sure I plowed her hard for several hours. When we were laying in bed afterwards, she pulls me close and says "You're amazing". I made sure to give a great first impression to keep her coming back.

    Post lay: Haven't changed my personality since I met her. Been keeping texts to a bare minimum with a light and playful undertone...haven't invested much time and energy into her but she's still gives off a warm reception every time. She's always laughing and is consistent with initiating. I always try to let her have the last word to keep her hanging and whatnot.

    It's just difficult to get her in bed with our situation. However, my parents will be away all week next week so I'll definitely push for an invite then. I would like to hear some thoughts about post-sex game...thanks.

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    Default Re: Second Lay Advice

    Increase your texts / communication, and ramp up the flirting/sexual aspect a bit.

    Girls love confidence... So when a guy confidently initiates sexual talk, the girl usually responds well. (Especially considering you've already had sex.)


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    Default Re: Second Lay Advice

    May i ask , is it not an option to inviter her over even when your parents are there? (when it is past their bed time)

    you go out with her for supper or what not and come home when you know your parents will be asleep, invite her in for a movie or something , better if you can watch said movie in your room. Escalate from there.

    1. she'll be hornier by the thought of being caught
    2. it'll remind her of her teenage years and boost her sex drives.
    3. ???
    4. Profit

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    Default Re: Second Lay Advice

    Dude! What are you worried about?! You already banged her and she liked it! You're in the clear. Keep doing what you're doing and bang her again!

    Don't worry about her not banging in the car. No matter what girl it is she will do it if you get her horny enough. If your parents will be gone for a week invite her over and bang her! She already knows the drill. You already sealed the deal. Lay back and have fun!

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    Default Re: Second Lay Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Increase your texts / communication, and ramp up the flirting/sexual aspect a bit.

    So here's how our convo went down last night:

    Me: So I hear you have Massage Withdrawal...life must be rough!
    Her: Hahah one would be so great right now
    Her: 12 min mile and a half today (Random so I ignored it)
    Me: I'd start with my lips caressing your neck, then slowly making my way down your legs
    Her:
    Her: I wish (so here is where I escalate a bit more)
    Me: Your arms wrap around me, pulling us close. As I gravitate towards your chest, your back arches...moaning slightly
    Her: (30 min later)
    Me: My way with words helped co-write 50 Shades of Grey (30 min later, tried to convey an unaffected, neutral response, rather than have it end on her awkward reply. Plus this response usually gets a laugh or further builds attraction...from my past experiences)


    I was puzzled as to why she sent that surprised face. Honestly, I still feel some sort of ASD is still in effect, like she doesn't want to be used for sex or something. Maybe she's testing me to see if I'm only in it for sex, thus turning her off? She's only had one boyfriend (5 years), and claims to be very picky.

    It's been almost a day and she hasn't contacted me back yet, so I'll just give it another day or two and re-initiate. Any ideas on what went wrong?


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