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Thread: Maybe next weekend. What does this mean?

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    Default Maybe next weekend. What does this mean?

    There is this girl that I see every now and then at the gym. Normally when she sees me she waves at me, she smiles at me and we talk. Last evening when saying goodbye I asked her what was her plan for the weekend and she said nothing! Then I asked if she wanted to have a coffee with me and she said she had to work on the weekend but then she said maybe next weekend!

    Does this sound like a polite NO to you or do you think I have to retry in a week or two? If the attraction level is low how can I build it up?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Maybe next weekend. What does this mean?

    So she says she has no plans on the weekend, then once you ask her out she said she's working? Hmmm...

    In context, it sounds like she's avoiding meeting up since she's not comfortable yet. Usually, "maybe" is a polite no just to get out of the conversation.

    Don't ask if she wants to go out. Even if she can't make it on a certain day, you'll show confidence by suggesting a date (Let's do XYZ at...") rather than wanting her approval via asking.

    Next time you see her, invite her out to tag along someplace and see how she reacts. If it's positive, use that as a segue to get her number and build the attraction from there. Keep things light and playful, make her laugh, build comfort, then escalate.

    Keep gaming other girls, don't force anything, and let things fall into place.

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    Default Re: Maybe next weekend. What does this mean?

    When a person waves its not really meant to interact with you but to show a good vibe gesture. She wasnt attracted to you enough OR really was too busy every waking moment on the weekend. Realistically if a girl is attracted to you she will make time for you. Personally i wouldnt ask a girl out unless i knew i could hug them. If you think about it hugging means a big sign for comfort level. There are many types of hugs. When you leave your intent for them you do need to focus on wearing down those walls of insecurity she's put up about most guys approaching her. Once she's give you clear signs of grabbing your attention is almost icing on the cake asking for her number or asking for a date ir even a ballsy move like kissing her
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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