I understand why you should break rapport and not push/pull in comfort. I want to make sure I'm breaking rapport correctly. For instance I dont want to think I'm breaking rapport by going sexual with her and then start push/pulling her, when she is still stuck in comfort.When To Push/Pull:
Whenever u want but not in comfort u'll look like an ass. Put urself in the HB's shoes u like this guy and u're trying to build rapport with him and all he does is joke around. Break rapport to pull away but use freeze outs to do so.
What does it mean by using freeze outs to break rapport?
I'm comforting a girl tonight who text me about problems she is having in her family. Our conversations are usually flirty/fun/teasing, but I decided to tone it back tonight and get on a deeper level with her. Now I'm ready to transition into being fun/flirty again. Does this mean I need to break rapport by not texting back for a few hours and then start on a new topic.