1. Is it good to keep eye contact and for how long? I heard of the 70/30 rule. But most guys have told me in the past they are frightened by my eye contact. So because of that I stopped keeping much eye contact. Now, after doing research, it's apparently really important to do it. But I guess I have to smile and be warm, and not intimidating. So even if you smile and are warm and comfortable, can eye contact still be considered creepy?
2. I've been noticing this quite a few time lately: When I talk to a girl, her eyes get red, as if crying, mostly around the edges, where the eyelashes are. What the hell does this even mean? They seem to be into me and laugh at the stuff I say, but what the hell is up with the eyes.
3. What should you do when you are with a girl and OTHER guys cat-call her. i.e. Walking down the street with her, and group of losers pass by and after they pass they say stuff like "DAAAYUM BABY, YOU'RE FINE".
They might say it even from a car.
You don't have time to react. I guess you can say "Thanks" as if they were saying it to you but sometimes they can be rude to you as well. Do you start fights? probably not, but you have to do something so you don't seem like a whimp.
I thought about it and I could come up with two strategies: If you can turn it around and make humour out of it, then do it. If not, if it's rude/etc. or they are rude to you or want to start fights, ignore and remain unaffected and stack foward. Any other suggestions?