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    Cool Why do we need a game?

    If our goal is lying with a girl, I can understand. But if we want to get
    better with women, get serious relationships, find our soulmate etc. I think we shouldn't play games. Instead, being direct, sincere, spontaneous and outspoken is a lot more attractive.

    You get women who loves YOU, not the mask you hide behind.
    You don't waste time.
    You don't have to keep playing your game to keep the girl. You just be
    yourself.

    I think people who memorise a good game, a script of routine don't have enough confidence. They don't believe they can get girls as who they really are. So they need the game.

    I've been reading the game of neil strauss. I think they suggest show little interst, ignore, look for IOI's to take action etc.

    Then we hide our intention. For example, why would a REAL man not say that he finds her attractive? Why would he pretend to be not interested?

    Look at this :
    Find an girl you ACTUALLY like
    Go upto her without hesitation
    Tell her how she looks
    Try to get to know her, as beauty only itself is not enough
    Make her talk and get impressed
    On Jimmy Kimmel, Neil Strauss asks Jessica Alba to tell him three
    qualities that she has. Like that, lead her to impress you.
    Get her number as a reward to her hardwork in impressing you
    Meet somewhere, have some talk, physically escalate.
    Use Vin DiCarlo's escalation ladder and go for a kiss>>get laid

    But obviously I am no expert, you are. So tell me which one works better, indirect or direct? ( when my goal is not only having lots of sex )

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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    Guys who only use scripted routines made up by someone else & / or lie to girls, will fall flat on their faces in not time at all.

    "Game" isn't about playing games or jerking people around emotionally.
    It's a term used to describe the normal psychological responses that people naturally react to.

    The thing is, if you do the same, tired, lame things every other guys has done, you'll get lumped into the category of "just another guy" & you'll get ignored or rejected.

    Women are attracted to guys who stand out & exhibit leadership qualities. They love it when a guy has a quick, sharp sense of humor & confidence, and is FUN.
    They like it when a guy is different than everyone else.

    The schmucks who tell a girl she's beautiful & offer to buy her a drink upon first meeting her get blown out. That's NOT gonna stand out & get a girl's attention. It's not going to build any kind of attraction.

    Having "conversations" with a girl will also not build attraction... it builds rapport & makes you "friends".

    The real key is to be confident & know how to flirt / be fun.

    THEN you can move on to "conversations" at a later point & "get to know each other".

    I can tell you from experience that gushing over a girl's looks & telling her how pretty she is, does not work.

    However; being playful, & fun DOES.


    I never hide my intentions. I let it be known that I'm interested in a girl as MORE THAN just friends. But I don't overwhelm her with attention right away. I calibrate it accordingly.

    You have to express some interest, without coming off as too eager/needy.

    Girls LOVE the chase & a bit of a challenge; period.

    Being a confident gentleman with a great sense of humor & expressing a fun vibe is what attracts women. And there are techniques that can be used by ANY guy, to achieve success.


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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    What are those techniques? How can I learn to flirt?

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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    Flirting is all about being FUN.
    Teasing/bantering is the main thing you need to do.

    (Think about how you & your friends razz each other... )

    Giving a girl little pet-names like dork, nerd-ball, goofy, spunky pants, etc. works well too.

    Here's one of my blogs about flirting:

    A lot of guys don’t know how to flirt. They’re unsure of what it actually is & how to go about doing it successfully.

    I’ll give you some tips that should help get you started.

    First of all, keep it light & silly.... and flirt with everyone...
    (I always flirt with checkout girls / ladies....even the old ones, just to stay sharp & keep myself in the groove.)

    Basically, I like to razz them about the way they're scanning my items or bagging them up.... Maybe even about the price of the item I’m buying.

    **Important** make sure you're smiling / laughing /winking etc... The key is to just make the interaction fun.

    Examples:

    "Hey, I see what you're doing... you scanned that twice. you're pretty sneaky!!"

    "Did you just give me the Senior discount? Are you trying to make me feel old or something?"

    "Nice! you scanned that with such laser precision... your hands are probably steady enough to do surgery on an emergency patient..."

    "You know, the reason I came through your checkout line is because, you smell better than the guy down there on register #3"

    "Look, don't judge me just because I still buy kids' cereal, I can't help it... Cap'n Crunch is still the boss!!

    Just little ridiculous things like that work wonders on getting them to smile.

    I mean, think about it...
    How many bitchy, cranky, asshole customers do you think she had to deal with already today? Sooooo, when you come along in a good mood, and you’re getting her to laugh & have fun for those few minutes, it's totally gonna make her day!

    Also- Flirting with girls at clubs or at coffee shops (or wherever) is the same thing.

    It’s all about light, playful teasing & bantering. Just adapt the context of your “friendly jabs” to the current surroundings & situation & you’ll be golden!



    And here's another thread on the forums that I wrote about flirting:

    All about flirting


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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    Yeah I love to keep it light and fun, thanks bro.There is something
    I want to add, "avoid realist girls" they never laugh at your joke

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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    When you flirt properly, you can weed out the girls with no sense of humor, so you don't waste your time & end up spinning your wheels going nowhere.


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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    Is there any footage or book etc. helpful to learn how to flirt?
    I am going to learn as much as i can in the field also.

    But everyone building muscle needs a supplement. I am building balls.

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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    Why being yourself when you can be someone better?

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    Default Re: Why do we need a game?

    The feminist movement has a lot to do with what we need if you look into it but it's a very scary and it's crazy thing so basically we need game because we are men and Ellen is Thomas


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