If our goal is lying with a girl, I can understand. But if we want to get
better with women, get serious relationships, find our soulmate etc. I think we shouldn't play games. Instead, being direct, sincere, spontaneous and outspoken is a lot more attractive.
You get women who loves YOU, not the mask you hide behind.
You don't waste time.
You don't have to keep playing your game to keep the girl. You just be
I think people who memorise a good game, a script of routine don't have enough confidence. They don't believe they can get girls as who they really are. So they need the game.
I've been reading the game of neil strauss. I think they suggest show little interst, ignore, look for IOI's to take action etc.
Then we hide our intention. For example, why would a REAL man not say that he finds her attractive? Why would he pretend to be not interested?
Look at this :
Find an girl you ACTUALLY like
Go upto her without hesitation
Tell her how she looks
Try to get to know her, as beauty only itself is not enough
Make her talk and get impressed
On Jimmy Kimmel, Neil Strauss asks Jessica Alba to tell him three
qualities that she has. Like that, lead her to impress you.
Get her number as a reward to her hardwork in impressing you
Meet somewhere, have some talk, physically escalate.
Use Vin DiCarlo's escalation ladder and go for a kiss>>get laid
But obviously I am no expert, you are. So tell me which one works better, indirect or direct? ( when my goal is not only having lots of sex )