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    Been friendly with this girl for a couple of weeks now, she slept here, been chatting since.. all good until fri/sat. We were supposed to see each other friday, I was a little busy, she didn't text, I didn't call. Then I woke up saturday to a couple of texts like "hello?" "Nevermind then, see ya" tried to talk her round she wasn't happy.. Then she finished her relationship of 5years on saturday night and she's been moody ever since. Standoffish, one word replies, told me she can't deal with me chatting to other girls. (which pretty much died off when I started chatting to her a lot) Now i'm gettin annoyed at her pushin me away, I've already said "fark you then, I can't be arsed" a couple of times and whatever. It's just shit.. I vibe with this girl, but now there's a horrible awkward atmosphere where we're kind of in a tiff. I wanna rescue it and see what happens with this girl, i'm just worried it's gettin worse every message and it's gonna be done before it's properly started. Any advice?

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    Default Re: girl problems..

    If you barely know her & you're miffed to the point of telling her to f**k off already, then she's not the one.

    Your best bet is to move on... AND do some serious self-improvement so that you don't become so reactive.


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    Default Re: girl problems..

    It seems that this girl is still gradually getting over her last long-term relationship and she is basically an emotional wreck right now, seeking validation, etc. I know it sounds harsh but the best thing you can do at this point is to move on and talk to other girls. You will only dig yourself into a deeper hole when you think about what could have been, why she suddenly went cold, etc. Learn to appreciate every experience you have with a girl whether it works out or not.

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    Default Re: girl problems..

    The only time I have serious fuck ups is in the 'is it on or is it off' part. Seem to panic and cling on best I can. Wrote way too much shit to her today in conversation, clearly came on too strong in my panic mode and she 'doesn't think it will work out' lol funny how things change fast when the shoe is on the other foot. She chased and panicked then I chased and panicked. Kinda knew it myself that if I'm telling her to fuck off within two weeks of knowing her, that this is probably gonna go tits up aha oh well. NEXT!

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    Default Re: girl problems..

    Been there, done that too.
    You're not the first, nor the last guy who will do that very same thing.

    When GUYS chase girls, it almost always ends badly.
    We come off as needy & desperate.

    However; girls LOVE the chase... and need it.
    If you're too easy, they get bored & subconsciously think that you're not confident whatsoever... and that you have insecurity issues. (Which oftentimes is the case)

    But the learning experiences you're having are well worth it, as long as you DO actually learn from these "misadventures".


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