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    Default depression.. I think

    Feeling proper down atm.. not enjoying the time I spend with friends or family really. Work's a drag. Money issues are catching up with me. Sometimes I can let it slide and focus, but shit's really gettin on top of me atm. I know this is a forum for pickup but people seem to be pretty helpful and I need a place to vent. I have no outlet, I have no passion. I dunno what to do! It used to be fun chasing girls, one after the other after the other.. now I want somethin real, that 'love' thing, a girl I can share fun shit with, rather than just get my end away. Seems like some fucked up roller coaster. I'm buzzing one minute when the latest girl is feeling as hyped as I am about making future plans then boom, everything crashes when she decides she got something better to waste her time on than me. Up and down depending on how she feels about me. Clearly I'm looking for validation, I feel like an outsider looking in most of the time. I want to feel part of life, so I go to the parties, I hang out with friends, I look for the one.. it's just all up and down. Bullshit. What can I do for me? Something to make me feel good without having to depend on how the next one feels about me?

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    Default Re: depression.. I think

    My bad about the text wall.. posting on my phone.

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    Default Re: depression.. I think

    I just need some direction. Which way do I go? Wish I could drop everything and everyone. Start shit over on a surfer's beach somewhere, simple little job with minimal expenses, simple little pretty girl and just live life in a chilled out crowd where no one cares what clothes you wear, what car you drive or how much you spent on drinks in the club last weekend. Just seems like everyone I know is trying to impress each other. I just want the simple chillin life. Seems unattainable where I'm sitting. People only give a fark if you're 'in the crowd'. It's shit man. What the fark is the point?

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    Default Re: depression.. I think

    Might not be the best one here to give advice but don't try to fit into something if you're not comfortable with it. You don't need the latest iPhone or iWatch or the latest fashion trend just so you feel like you're part of the 'crowd'. It's all superficial and it won't last because that fad dies out in less than a year and another device or trend pops out.


    You can still live a chilled out life right now with minimal expenses and the right attitude. All you have to do is focus on yourself mentally and physically and give everyone else the middle finger because you are the only one that matters in your world and every now and then you can invite people in. Let them experience it, if they don't like it then they can fark off. You matter, not them. You don't need to prove anything to anyone because they need to prove everything to you.


    Stop trying to fit in. The world isn't built like LEGO blocks. If you try and fit in then you become like most people, you blend into the background of inane existence. Who would want to go out with you if you look and act like everyone else? Do you want to be the zebra among the zebras or a pure bred stallion among the zebras? (This reminds me of the movie Madagascar with the zebra herd). You need to be the guy that stands out who has his sh*t together. You need to be the needle in the haystack because you are different and you are your own person.


    So how do you do this? Hit the friggin' gym or the road. Start jogging, weightlifting, cycling or any other intense exercises. They help promote the good hormones in your body that kick the sh*t out of the ones that make you feel depressed. Once you feel great physically then your mind will fall in line. I know it's shallow but those super toned dudes in front of the mirror taking selfies, you think they care what you think? They have the body of Adonis and they walk around like they own the world and most women will scream douchebags whilst riding them in every position depicted in the Kama Sutra.


    Reframe your mindset. Stop thinking you need to fit in so you can be accepted but instead look at the crowd and laugh at them for trying too hard to fit into a shallow life of mediocrity that requires material happiness, that only lasts until the next upgrade cycle. You don't need things to make you happy. A woman can hook up with a homeless guy as long as he has a cardboard box to fark on and great conversations in between. If a woman wants excess, then buddy you need to run like a character from The Walking Dead. That's a gold digger and she doesn't love or like you.


    Stop chasing for now and focus on yourself. Once you are physically and mentally in congruence, you will start to see things differently. Women have a knack for picking out guys like that. The Alphas. They want a guy who are positive because they want to mooch on that positive energy. Ask yourself this, would anybody like to hang around with a depressed guy or a guy who is positive, happy and becomes the beacon of light every where they go? And all this is simply being yourself by accepting yourself fully with all your faults and cracks. Use those faults and cracks like an armour, poke fun of it. Hey I got 2 large front teeth, saves me money in halloween for the bunny costume.


    Get some hobbies. Exercise more. Eat healthy. Get a hold of your finances. Do some charity work or volunteering work. Not only will you meet great people but helping someone less fortunate then you, gives you some ever lasting happiness. Money doesn't buy you happiness. Why do you think some celebrities, with all the money in the world still kill themselves? And why do you think some celebrities are working tirelessly for charity work?

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    Default Re: depression.. I think

    May i suggest a vacation or moving? Sometimes big life changing events will open your mind or expand your options.

    Do you have hobbies? Consider building on them with more focus while cutting the fat out of your life that isnt positive. Cut it off for a week and see how you feel. Think about the pros and cons and build on all of it by introducing things back into your life. Sometimes by starving yourself of life situations work just like eating. When you cut out meat for a week and eat more veggies you will have a hard time dealing with the routine but normally by the end of the week you will feel more focused and full of energy. Then when you start to introduce meat again into your diet with something small like fish you will see how it effects you. Dont go for a burger or steak right away or else all that work would just goto waste. So when you look at your life and cutting out going out--its not just about being social but spending the appropreate time by yourself and seeing what makes you happy like a road trip, a hobby or meeting new people who inspire you. Sometimes just meeting people isnt going to cut it. Sometimes you need interesting people to help motivate you to grow positively. Give yourself worth, a perspective and openess to making mistakes so you can grow. Change doesnt happen over night. You have to be open to changes and accepting them if you want to reflect a positive change on your life.

    I have more i want to say but honestly the above is a really good start
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: depression.. I think

    May i suggest a vacation or moving? Sometimes big life changing events will open your mind or expand your options.

    Do you have hobbies? Consider building on them with more focus while cutting the fat out of your life that isnt positive. Cut it off for a week and see how you feel. Think about the pros and cons and build on all of it by introducing things back into your life. Sometimes by starving yourself of life situations work just like eating. When you cut out meat for a week and eat more veggies you will have a hard time dealing with the routine but normally by the end of the week you will feel more focused and full of energy. Then when you start to introduce meat again into your diet with something small like fish you will see how it effects you. Dont go for a burger or steak right away or else all that work would just goto waste. So when you look at your life and cutting out going out--its not just about being social but spending the appropreate time by yourself and seeing what makes you happy like a road trip, a hobby or meeting new people who inspire you. Sometimes just meeting people isnt going to cut it. Sometimes you need interesting people to help motivate you to grow positively. Give yourself worth, a perspective and openess to making mistakes so you can grow. Change doesnt happen over night. You have to be open to changes and accepting them if you want to reflect a positive change on your life.

    I have more i want to say but honestly the above is a really good start
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: depression.. I think

    Mate buy SAM-e tablets at your closest nautropaths. You can also buy online at iHerb.com or eVitamins.com (however online purchases may take weeks to reach you).

    Buy SAM-e 400mg and take one tablet per day. You have to wait for 7 days to begin seeing results. SAM-e is herbal and does not have side effects. It will uplift your mood dramatically. Check the internet for reviews before you buy it.

    30 tables should be enough for you.

    Check this

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