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    confucious is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is she testing me?

    Wassup fellas. I have been chatting up this girl that lives in another country. She recently said that she is coming to visit my city and wants me to meet her. Things look pretty good but when talk sometimes she keeps telling me that she has a lot of secrets and that she is going to tell me her secrets but then never tells me. I have been playing it like i'm not interested at all because I think she is testing me to see if she can drive me to begging her to tell me her "secrets." I told her, "you she can tell me your secrets only if they aren't boring" and that is all. Then she goes on about being best friends and should be able to tell each other everything. I tell her "There is no way we are best friends but maybe if you treat me really well for ten years, I might consider it..."

    Am I doing the right things here? I am pretty sure she is a TDR, she has a lot of friends and she is pretty so I'm sure alot of her friends are guys and completely hides all of them from me. I know she is probably going on dates everyday. She lives in another country away from her family and is an independent working woman. She never talks about anything sexual but she is always extremely well dressed and done up, looking fine. Any advice here?

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    Default Re: Is she testing me?

    Ummm so you never met her and you're looking for??? Connection? Just keep talking if thats the case. I'm not really sure if you're really having any problems outside of the obvious... Which is you might be catfished or you're playing the long form distant relationship game with someone you havent met at all yet. You cant really escalate beyond texts, phone calls, skype or send packages until she shows up. Theres not much reward there unless either of you actually commits to visiting each other...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    confucious is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is she testing me?

    Thank you, Artandale, for the response, and noooo i'm not looking for connection. Obviously, what I am trying to do, I can't believe I have to say this, is build up attraction so that she actually will visit and my city and make it a point to see me. Additionally, I really want to know what her secrets are. She makes them sound very, interesting. Also, I feel like I am letting her slide and control the frame by not calling her out on it. Whatever my intentions are, at least I want to control the damn frame and come off as the alpha. Additionally, I see this quite often with women. They say something that they think you want to hear to see what the reaction is or gain control. Maybe I should just ignore her "naughty secrets" claims as if she is not even making them.


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