Wassup fellas. I have been chatting up this girl that lives in another country. She recently said that she is coming to visit my city and wants me to meet her. Things look pretty good but when talk sometimes she keeps telling me that she has a lot of secrets and that she is going to tell me her secrets but then never tells me. I have been playing it like i'm not interested at all because I think she is testing me to see if she can drive me to begging her to tell me her "secrets." I told her, "you she can tell me your secrets only if they aren't boring" and that is all. Then she goes on about being best friends and should be able to tell each other everything. I tell her "There is no way we are best friends but maybe if you treat me really well for ten years, I might consider it..."
Am I doing the right things here? I am pretty sure she is a TDR, she has a lot of friends and she is pretty so I'm sure alot of her friends are guys and completely hides all of them from me. I know she is probably going on dates everyday. She lives in another country away from her family and is an independent working woman. She never talks about anything sexual but she is always extremely well dressed and done up, looking fine. Any advice here?