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Thread: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

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    Default Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    Hey guys,

    I really need to know if something is actually wrong with me.

    I am a good looking guy who wants love. In all honesty, loving a girl and being needed is somethign I want. No games.

    But I have found that I can be not respected by girls when I talk about love and making them happy.

    I want love, but I feel "more like a man" when I put on the "bad boy" act and get more respect from women. I have studied how to NOT CARE about women and be INDIFFERENT...but deep down I want love..

    My questions: 1) Am I normal to want love and not just sex?
    2) Is it possible to just leave out the "act" and still attract a female?

    Please answer these questions. Thank You

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    I really need to know if something is actually wrong with me
    nothings wrong with you. you're just like any other dude.

    1) Am I normal to want love and not just sex?
    actually, wanting love is just as natural as wanting sex.

    however, sex is a lot easier to get than love, and its no where near as hard on you emotionally.

    2) Is it possible to just leave out the "act" and still attract a female?
    ah yes, this is actually what most pua's are working towards.

    that is, to no longer act like your good with woman, but instead to truly be good with woman.

    you don't have to pretend like you're somebody you're not, but what you do have to do is to unapologetically be yourself, and to be unapologetically honest with yourself and other people.

    know what you want and go for it.

    there's nothing wrong with wanting someone to love and spend your time with.

    however, you can't be too quick to fall in love, it's just something that has to happen over time.

    pua will help you to get girls interested in you, but it is your unique self that will ultimately make one of them fall head over heels for you.

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    Hey Thanks for the reply man. Appreciated.

    I'm just not sure how I can look for love and still attract and have "balls". It's difficult.

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    It's normally to want love just like it's normal to want to eat a yummy food. However, when you cook a food you never put it on a very high heat otherwise you will burn your food! The most delicious foods on this planet are slow-cooked meals and the same story goes to finding love!

    Finding love has a recipe and it comes out perfect when you slow cook it! If you talk about love very soon you will come across as desperate and as someone who has emotional issues. Your recipe is approaching women and dating them and letting time to cook love for you. You must never bring it up until women bring it up for you. I guarantee once love is there women will tell you.

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    I'm just not sure how I can look for love and still attract and have "balls". It's difficult
    the way to look for love and still have balls is quite simple. control your emotions until after the girl has uncontrollable emotions towards you.

    in the early stages of dating (like the first month or two) you have to think with your head not your heart.

    anytime during this first month or two that you start to have feelings for a girl who your not sure about, just remind yourself of how much it sucks to fall in love with someone who doesn't love you.

    I also highly recommend that you read the e-book "how to meet and connect with women" by wayne elise
    (just search for it on google, you can download it for free like I did)

    pay especially good attention to the section it has on the difference between genuine interest and desperate interest.

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    Quote Originally Posted by PatPark View Post

    My questions: 1) Am I normal to want love and not just sex?

    Yes, unfortunately love is not for the romantic, as the romance always flames out (proven clinically).

    But, if you're up for the work of creating a good family, then I'd say go for it. In my case, I go in to relationships knowing that it's going to be either a good-great 1 night stand or months-years of memorable times; usually and obviously, most are somewhere in between.

    So don't feel bad about the feeling, BUT know what you're getting yourself into, i.e., not some romantic fantasy out of a movie and/or book



    2) Is it possible to just leave out the "act" and still attract a female?


    Not if you want a really attractive woman, unless you get lucky, e.g., in a high women-to-men ratio-town with many beautiful women who are laid back or you just trip and your dick lands in some hot poon.

    Otherwise, get in line as quality women are in demand, and thus, putting on at least some sort of act is necessary.

    Please answer these questions. Thank You
    Just my humble opinión

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    Yes you're perfectly normal. As much as I'm disgusted by chick flick moments, It's sometimes better to feel something, to have this strong connection with someone than just being a social robot who brings home different girls everynight.

    I wouldn't call it an "act". Well personally I've always loved bantering, teasing, and being an asshole in a funny way pick up just helped me to see a different perspective of my personality to push it to the extremes and put it to good use so it's really not an act for me.

    You know the famous line "Just be yourself"? I love using that on my friends and everytime I say that to them they make fun of it and actually overlook it "Oh yeah just be myself cause everybody likes a loser" "Oh yeah that's easy for you to say not everyone is as confident as you" "Yeah bla bla bla I can't bla bla".

    But it's actually really that simple, Be yourself and be cool with it. It's all about perspective. If you think your a loser then you're a loser. If you think you're awesome then you're farking awesome. I've talked to girls about stuffed toys and shit and it's still considered farking badass.

    As what I've always said this should be all about FUN! Don't pressure yourself to find love. Everybody wants love but you just gotta chill, relax and enjoy the process.

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    Meteora my man, when did you and I start having the same brain?
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Am I normal? 2 questions badly need answering

    Meteora my man, when did you and I start having the same brain?
    you already forgot about the surgery??? that brain transplant deal we did must have had some adverse effect on your memory.... lol jk

    great minds think alike.


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