I really need to know if something is actually wrong with me.
I am a good looking guy who wants love. In all honesty, loving a girl and being needed is somethign I want. No games.
But I have found that I can be not respected by girls when I talk about love and making them happy.
I want love, but I feel "more like a man" when I put on the "bad boy" act and get more respect from women. I have studied how to NOT CARE about women and be INDIFFERENT...but deep down I want love..
My questions: 1) Am I normal to want love and not just sex?
2) Is it possible to just leave out the "act" and still attract a female?
Please answer these questions. Thank You