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    Default What The F*** Happened!?

    Hey guys. I need some advice...

    So I met a girl a about a month ago, at a club.

    HB 8.5+ .. very high maintenance type... loves going out clubs restaurants travelling designer clothes pain in the ass etc etc.

    I played a solid attraction game K-N closed her that night.

    We had been texting every day.. it was going very well..

    she came over about 2 weeks ago and we had sex... twice.

    She seemed to really enjoy it (I now I did)

    she was the most responsive girl during sex I had ever had sex with, telling me what she liked, moaning, telling me to continue, cum in her mouth etc... it was a hell of a good time.

    after that we chilled took cute selfies together and she left.


    I saw her one more time after that day, we grabbed a quick coffee after work and spoke for 20 minutes because she had stuff to do.

    now we don't text nearly a fraction of what we used to.
    every time I text her she replies like 5 hours later (while still being active on her phone through snapchat instagram etc)

    On sunday night I asked her to go to shisha Monday to which she replied " yesss for sure! I will let u know! xox"
    but the next day she ignored my text and replied hours later
    "omgg.. im so sorry I passed out I was dead from school I just woke up now"

    I replied: no worries we'll do something soon

    the next day I texted her:
    "When are we chilling Kido" - she hates when I call her a kid

    and she replied

    "sooooonnn"
    "with back to school I don't have time for myself right now"


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    I find it hard to believe she has no time considering shes always snap chatting her meals at restaurants & stuff...

    and we went from speaking EVERYDAY, to this bullshit...

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    so based on this information,
    may I ask one of the experts....

    What The Fuck Just Happened

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Also just to add..

    that last text she sent me was last night,

    I still have not yet replied...

    im thinking of not replying for a few days ...

    what is my best course of action?

    I want to know what I did wrong

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Sorry man, she's back in school and met a guy, forming a clique, etc. The best way to handle this.is never text her first again, and start looking for a new girl. If she hits you up in the future, good, go out with her.. but otherwise she flaked on you hard. That's not a good sign.

    You didn't do anything wrong. She's just socially active and sexually free. What you don't want is to be her beta orbiter. That's bad..mmmmkay?

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Thanks Silicon for the advice...

    I appreciate that you said I didn't do anything wrong...

    but if I really didn't do anything wrong why would she suddenly just flake out on me...

    I almost want to ask her why, not to salvage the relationship (I think that's over) but to see where I went wrong so I can develop my game and take it to the next level.
    but maybe your right,, maybe I didn't do anything wrong and this is all in her head... either way it sucks .. I thought the game is pretty much over after sex...

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Quote Originally Posted by Trunks View Post
    Thanks Silicon for the advice...

    I appreciate that you said I didn't do anything wrong...

    but if I really didn't do anything wrong why would she suddenly just flake out on me...

    I almost want to ask her why, not to salvage the relationship (I think that's over) but to see where I went wrong so I can develop my game and take it to the next level.
    but maybe your right,, maybe I didn't do anything wrong and this is all in her head... either way it sucks .. I thought the game is pretty much over after sex...
    AHA! Oh no man. Women get buyer's remorse or move on for all kinds of frivolous reasons these days. Screw you nine ways from Sunday and then find some other man. Some in the manosphere call this "the cock carousel" and it seems pretty apt to me.

    So take heart though. You just banged a hottie and don't have to deal with her commitment issues, she coulda just kept you around with an occasional bang in trade for dates, favors, etc. Get down to meeting the next one. Always keep one in your bed and one in your head.

    Did you get emotional with her at all? Did you break character and go beta on her? That may have something to do with it.

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Yeah that's the positive..
    I got to fk a hot girl and impress my friends lol

    I don't know man,
    I was pretty much the same character..
    Maybe I became a little more "cute" after we had sex.. But I remember still trying to keep my cocky-funny confident style I always had with her..

    After we fucked I didn't text her that day ,
    I spoke to her the day after but like I said it's been distant texting as opposed to before the Big Bang..

    I remember the day before we had sex she was drunk (I wasn't) and she was saying how she would introduce me to her parents and she asked if my family would approve of her
    ( even tho I had no intent of being serious with this girl , I found
    This was a good thing because it showed me she cared and thinks highly of me)

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Never take a woman at her word, let her actions prove her intent. Plenty of women will feed you what you want to hear, or get caught up in the heat of the moment and say things they may not mean. Be skeptical of such women.

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Honestly it could just be buyer's remorse or she's focusing on school. Now this is the time where you might be tempted to do something needy, don't do it. Be patient and be smart.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    I appreciate all the feedback.

    Im not going to reply to her message. Im not going to text her for at least a few days, and IF I do after that, ill make sure its a very casual text conveying no neediness or anything close.
    But maybe I shouldn't even do that...

    she sent me a snap-chat today... I don't even think Ill open it.. maybe in like 15 hours from now to show her I don't really give a shit.

    To be honest this is the first time ive been in a situation where I lose a girl after sex.. its good to experience new trials.

    thanks for helping me out guys

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    Default Re: What The F*** Happened!?

    Maatee.. just a bit of friendly advice (I'm not an expert by any means) but, don't play games while texting! It's honestly so obvious, and it will just cause her to play games back. I think you're taking this a bit to seriously. Yeah, it could be that she's moving on BUT, it could also be that she wants to focus in on her schoolwork. Don't act like it's one or the other, just maintain your frame.

    If she doesn't want to talk at the moment, fine, don't talk to her. I'm sure a high value male such as yourself has better things to do than pine over why 'she doesn't want to talk to me'. Just trust that she'll be back, and 9 times out of 10 she will.

    If she does want to talk, first work out if you do at the moment. If you can, GREAT! Talk. It's that simple.

    If she's still texting you AND she's sending you snaps, then it's pretty safe to assume she still wants you around. Snap-chats are honestly so cool. When a girl that you've had sex with sends you a snap, she is subtly trying to get you to think about her. I'd say that's a good place to be.

    Anyways, congrats on the F-close. I don't really think you have a problem. As long as you don't flip out, you'll do fine kiddo
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