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    Default HB9 - Confused about me. Do i still have a chance?

    Hi guys,
    I've been thinking a lot about this particular issue i'm having.
    And since im pretty much out of ideas I've decided to come here and ask the experts.


    I started college this year... (a short course)
    And i met this Wonderful, beautiful HB9 (Fake tits but just gorgeus)
    anyway. im not a natural... but along the way i learnt the ways reading and in the end i started to believe that things just were working... i know how to make an opener, a good impresion, and since i liked her i started to making small moves toward her.
    As time happens... i realized she was WAY into me. she started phoning me, texting me, touching me in class.

    One day, in the middle of the class. She kissed me.
    it was a big fucking surprise.
    i was like "wtf.!!" I freaked out. mostly because i have a "girlfriend".

    Now lets make a stop here. My girlfriend cheated on me 3 months ago. And just because im a weak chicken excuse for a man, i forgave her... just because we were dating for a long time (like 5 years) and i was weak to just let things go. my mistake. But i wanted to dump my gf for so long, just didnt have the GUTS to do it. but this is my mistake.

    After some days... the hb9 invited me to her home, i went... she invented a NO SEX policy (because she knew i had a GF)... we ended up cuddling and sleeping in her bed.

    Then she went on a holiday for 1 month with her family.
    We continue talking but she got mad at me for not dumping my GF...
    When she got back... i dumped my gf... coz i decided i wanted to be with this girl. It's the first time i receive attention from a HB9 and also i love her personality, i don't know... i just like this girl, is that bad?

    But she told me that she is already seeing someone.
    Days went by... and she invited me to her home. we kissed again...

    Then she tells me "sorry... im with this guy now... i dont want to hurt anyone so this is not right"

    but in class she continue to sit next to me, held hands with me, make me massages... and also kiss me in the cheek... (not a normal kiss though.. she is being provocative...)

    So...
    Right now what happened today was that we went together to the bus stop... and she told me that even when she likes me, she is trying with this other guy who is deeply commited to her (she didnt say IM commited to him) she said, im confused, and dont know what to do. But she is ANGRY at me, because it took me TOO long to be with her.

    I decided to play the "ok, this is over, i wont speak to you anymore" card, but she was like, but i dont want that... i want us to continue being together...
    in the end she kissed me on the cheek and huged me, and looked at me with sad eyes... like she wanted to be with me...

    So im seeing that i still have a chance.
    Which move should i make ? i really want to have this girl. Been making a lot of effort and i wont give it a rest now...

    Im seeing her 3 days a week.
    Should i stop talking to her.?
    im not sure if that is good if she is confused...
    what do you think?

    Thank you guys i hope you can give me some good ideas

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    Default Re: HB9 - Confused about me. Do i still have a chance?

    Honestly it sounds like she wants the cake and eat it too. Don't give that option to her. It really seems like she's a flirt and just want you and that other guy at her fingertips
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: HB9 - Confused about me. Do i still have a chance?

    Hold your frame. Dont friendzone yourself. Read kyle's friendzone slayer guide to know how to steer clear of the line you are dancing. You've told her what you want so stay with it or move on. If you friendzone yourself then you're only going to hurt yourself more.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: HB9 - Confused about me. Do i still have a chance?

    Thanks Guys!!

    I'm reading the guide allready. The only problem... is that in the guide it's stated that she is NOT attracted to me.

    As a matter of fact, when she said to me i want to remain as friends. i told her "That's not what i want from you."
    after that she told me that she was confused. Had a crush for me.. And she didn't knew what to do. (That she told this to his actual guy... and she didnt wanted to hurt him...)

    So in the end i told her NOT to speak to me anymore. Because for me this situation has no gain. And i didnt care to have her as a friend. (Maybe a little too agressive, but that's my game sometimes...)...

    The problem regarding this... is that if I stop talking RIGHT NOW with the new guy in the corner.. i just feel its gonna be to late...
    So i need to take hands on this situation ASAP.

    Thank you guys!!


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