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    Default Help me with second date please

    Guys I need help with getting second dates. I had this problem a year before and I posted messages here. Ever since I made up my own routines and blueprints and I worked on myself massively so that I am very fit, well dressed and very confident now.

    I get by average two dates per week through day game and online dating. On every date it does not take me long to kiss close, touch and so on. In the past two months I've been on like 15 dates from which 100% has ended up to heavy make out and even sex! The people I've gone on the first date with have been HB9 and HB10.

    This makes me think that women find me attractive/hot/sexy so I do not think there is anything wrong with my look, attitude, conversation, behaviour or confidence. The problem here is that all those women probably think guilty or they think I am after sex only so they stop contacting me after the first date. Like some of them sleep with me and when they go home they text me and say "thanks for the great time" but later they disappear!

    I went on a date two nights ago, we had a drink and I made her laugh. She suggested going for dinner somewhere which we did and so we spent 3 hours together (till 10:30pm!) and once saying good bye she put her tongue into my throat! I stopped her gently and kissed her and said "Let's do not go too far". She said she would be busy on the coming weekend but we can meet up for a second date the next week.

    I texted her the next day and said "I had a great time and I hope you enjoyed your night too. I look forward to the next weekend when we can have some good time together again". Two days has passed and I have not got a reply yet.

    My question is that what I am doing wrong do you think? If I go ahead and keep making out/getting laid they disappear. If I avoid going too far they disappear too!! What should I do?!

    About this specific girl, shall I text her again? How should I open her up again so I do not come across as too keen?

    cheers

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    Default Re: Help me with second date please

    Check out my "list of magic texts" to get some ideas on how to re-initiate communication.

    These texts are designed to spark curiosity & get the girl to start replying.


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    Default Re: Help me with second date please

    T-mal you always give me good advice so please tell me why women are so keen on the first date so that they talk, laugh, hold hands, kiss and make out but then they do not proceed to the second date?!


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