Re: I had a crazy night
Yeah I think I am stuck in the friendzone as well though not to not being awesome but to like they said not kino escalating. I made out with her when we met but then turned away when she tried to kiss me when we were hanging a couple weeks ago. Then she makes out with another guy and I broke it off. So I put myself kinda in the friendzone but I think because I lost interest. I am not saying I want her back I mean we still talk just not like we used to.
But they are right forget to continually kino escalate will kill the emotional vibes between you. At first I was confused why she became so distant then I realized it was cuz I cut off the sexual escalation which now it makes sense why she goes out of her way to ignore me. I lost but okay my only problem is I am working all weekend so I can't go out but the weather is crud so less HB's going out. Either way I am hoping next Summer I deliver big time.
As far as your story you are giving the girls too much validation and qualifying yourself too much. Do they like said...use your listening as a Segway for sexual vibes. Try to ping test them with the small stuff first then move into broader dimensions. For me the make outs are becoming easier it is just hard to stay that interested in them all the time.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.