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    Default Re: Dont take it personally, but I might be distant for a while...

    Try not to get frustrated. You're not dating her. She owes you nothing.

    I would consider just being forward. You wanted to add her. You saw shes in a relationship. You can continue lying about moving but i would say that its just a thought and leave it at that. Shes some what still pining for you but you should see whats up with the relationship thing. Dont read into anything. But be prepared to walk away because you lose interest because when things arent interesting its not worth the effort. Just talk it out. Let her do more talkig than you do. Dont frame yourself to be not understanding or disinterested unless you really are. She will pick up on your mood based on the to aloty of your responses.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Dont take it personally, but I might be distant for a while...

    Yeah I kinda wish I had been straight forward with her about it. Now that she took the status down it will be harder to. She doesn't owe me anything but it is frustrating the status went up at the same time she told me about being distant because of her grandmother.

    Edit - well I guess it's never too late to bring it up. I went ahead and text her this morning that when I added her it said she was in a relationship. I asked her what it was about. We'll see what happens.

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    Default Re: Dont take it personally, but I might be distant for a while...

    She said it was from a previous relationship and hadnt changed it. I believe her. Will move forward from here and stay positive.

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    Default Re: Dont take it personally, but I might be distant for a while...

    Yeah, stop acting based on your first intial feelings. Acting upon them can lead to much more regret. Just be understanding and try to figure things out after the fact. Decide for yourself if you want to continue at every stage and if you do then just enjoy it
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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