So finally I have managed to get a few numbers every week through (direct) day game. But unfortunately for some unknown reasons I fark the numbers up. What happens is that I send a first text message and I get a reply. I send a couple more texts and that's it. The girl stops responding.
I know the rules and basics of text game. I just feel that the attraction and energy level of those women fades away for some reasons. For example I approached a stunning girl on last Saturday and after getting her number I said why not having coffee together sometime? She said yes sure text me when/where. Then the same night we have a semi-chat through texting and I made her laugh so much. However after a while I told her that I had to say goodbye but I would let her know when to meet but it would probably be next Tuesday after work. I did that because I wanted to end the conversation in its peak. She replied that "Sure sounds good. Have a good night! x".
So next day I texted her that "Let's meet up at X cafe at 7:30pm". She replied that "I am not sure if I can 100% make it because I am busy". To me it looked like a "be prepared for flaking". Later at night I sent her a text message but she ignored it. Today (Tuesday) she texted and said that she could not make the meet up and we had to cancel.
When I look at my messages I do not see anything wrong with them. In fact on the first day my messages were very good. But I am not sure why the next day she changed totally. Does anyone have a guess or idea as to why she (and some other women like her) lost interest over night?!
And the second question is that when this happen, should I try to set up another date or do I have to move on? And what is the best way to rebuild the attraction? e.g. Do I have to freeze her for a couple of days? Should I not mention meeting up/dates at all?