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    Default Dealing with cancellations/flaking?

    If you set up a date with an HB and she cancels on you, would you try to reschedule with her? Provided that either you like her or she is too hot? How would you do it without lowering your value or looking needy?

    Like I want to go on a date with this HB10 but once she canceled because she was busy at work. If I text her and say "Let's do coffee/drink on another time" it will look needy (at least it does to me). I guess the best thing to do is to make her feel regretful about the cancellation but I am not sure how. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: How to deal with cancellations/flaking?

    Give her a pass the first time. Not a big deal.
    If she flakes on the 2nd & third ones, then put her on the back burner & work on someone else.

    Sometimes life really does have things going on & people just can't make it. So the occasional change of plans is totally acceptable.


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    Default Re: Dealing with cancellations/flaking?

    Thanks T-Mal
    I sent this message to that HB10:

    No worries it's totally understandable. We can catch up another time. Hang in there and be strong for both of us ;-)

    I want to freeze her for 2-3 days and suggest another date. Can you suggest me a good approach to unfreeze and suggest a date? I mean should I keep building attraction for a while or should I just say let's do x on y?

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    Default Re: Dealing with cancellations/flaking?

    Take a day off & then re-initiate with something random.
    (See my list of magic texts for LOTS of examples of what I mean).

    Don't push another meet up right away.
    Just re-establish mutual contact & get her interest piqued again.



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