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Thread: 1 year went by - possible to come back?

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    Default 1 year went by - possible to come back?

    This HB was the first who I ran game on - it was a tight, solid game, as it is written: indirect approach, following Mystery method (as I said, this was my foundation stone of my PUA being), kiss-close on first date, f-close on 2nd. We get into a very emotional kinda-relationship, meeting like 3-4 times a week. I really fell in love with her, and opened too much - I guess that was the problem. Because of some stupid rookie mistake (takint her in my relationship status on facebok too soon, freezing her out wrong time etc.), she finally went cold, we broke up. She became my oneitis, so I started kinda chase her, almost begging to get back or meet again - needles to say, she told me not to write her again. I deleted her on facebook, deleted her number etc.

    A lot of things have happened to me the past months, and I know I'm not very stabil emotionally right now, that's why I stay away from big decisions right now. But 2 days ago, I'm just flipping girls left or right on tinder when I saw her profile. Of course I immediately flip her right - we haven't matched yet, but you know, big city, many tinder users, maybe she hasn't seen me yet. Anyway, I just can't stop thinking of her since that. It has been a year, but as I said, it was a heavy emotional kinda-relationship.

    So, my question is: is it possible to get back her and catch up again? I asked one of my wings who said everything is possible, 1 year is long enough and I should try it. What do you think guys? If you agree, what do you think I should do? Random message, "long time no see"-kind of message or what?

    Thank you guys!
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    Default Re: 1 year went by - possible to come back?

    try re-initiating with a ping text. (If you have her number)
    Something like "Hey Nerd-ball, I saw xxxxx today, reminded me of you. Hope you're having a stellar day."

    or

    "Hey there sassy pants, I just had a rockin margarita & thought of you. Hope your day is full of awesomeness. "


    You can edit / customize a bit to fit your situation more personally... but that's the basic idea.

    I've re-initiated with girls who it had been MORE THAN a year & they responded back in a short amount of time.

    NOTHING is impossible.


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    Default Re: 1 year went by - possible to come back?

    Thanks T-mal, your advices are golden as always! I wrote her "I just had an overpriced wine at XY (the place we had the 3rd date) and you just pop up in Tinder, so I just can not think about you. Have a stellar weekend!".

    She responded "Thank you, and where did you flip me, left or right? "
    The fact that she responded is a little IOI I guess - but how should I carry on? Try to have a little chit-chat, teasing her and asked her out again? Should I deal with it like a completely new HB, or I shouldn't forget the fact that we have already went out?

    To be honest I'm a but scarred I'm gonna scre this up - as I mentioned my last post, she was a huge oneitis for me.


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