I don't think talking direct will work with this gal right now, maybe at all. She's mad at me for what she perceives as me refusing/rejecting her advances. I didn't understand this until I started reading up on PUA. Although I'd like to tell her I was blind but now see the light, I'm pretty sure that would DLV me.
Also have status with other women that interact with the Target, so I'm wondering if they would drop hints for me. Would that work? Seems like that would risk DLV me to them too. My only other option is to let the Target cool, reset, and try again in a few weeks.