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Thread: How to get over a bad night?

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    Default How to get over a bad night?

    It was one of those nights were it seemed no matter what i said or did no girl was biting. i couldn't keep a set going or really get any girl interested. i was starting to get shy towards the end of the night because of the rejections. i cant shake this negativity about my approach. anyone with pointers for shaking off a night where you are just completely off.

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    Default Re: How to get over a bad night?

    It was one of those nights were it seemed no matter what i said or did no girl was biting. i couldn't keep a set going or really get any girl interested. i was starting to get shy towards the end of the night because of the rejections. i cant shake this negativity about my approach. anyone with pointers for shaking off a night where you are just completely off.
    first of all, give yourself a big pat on the back for making all those approaches! a lot of guys have "bad nights" where they're too shy to talk to any of the women they find attractive.

    secondly, figure out what all your sets had in common. did you seem needy? did you eject from sets without getting rejected?(that's the problem I sometimes have) did you "freeze" or run out of things to say? did you fail to have interesting conversation? did you give away your leadership role in the conversation? did you fail to kino escalate?

    think back, and I'm sure you'll see what all your bad approaches had in common. that's how you figure out your sticking point.


    as for shaking off that bad feeling, just go to sleep thinking about it, and you'll likely wake up with the solution to your problem.

    if you still can't shake it, then I recommend treating yourself to a nice long hot shower.(that usually does the trick for me)

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    Default Re: How to get over a bad night?

    It happens man. I have nights like that when I make 30 approaches and I get nothing. Then I have other nights when every woman in the place wants me.

    I haven't been able to pin point what was wrong when it goes bad. I think it has allot to do with what my mindset is like before I go out. If bad stuff is happening in my life or I'm in a dry spell at the time I think it doesn't go as well. The key is to forget about it because it REALLY doesn't matter. Keep approaching and you will be fine!


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