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Thread: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

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    Default I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    There's a girl I've been talking to for 2 months. I've posted on the forum about her before. Well tonight we finally met up. The date went great, escalated and we ended up back at her place. In the heat of the moment I was incredibly stupid and we didnt use a condom. She was on top and I wasnt able to pull out in time.

    At the end she said, you know I can get pregnant because I'm not on birth control. She felt bad for not telling me before about not being on it, but at the same time this was half my fault. I went to the store and bought her plan b. I wanted to smack myself in the face.

    But my number one fear from not using a condom is HIV. We had unprotected vaginal intercourse only, no anal. I asked if she had any std's and she said no, but I know she has been with many other guys. I'm going to be freaking out. My throat is already feeling itchy and I'm actually sick to my stomach over this. She is only the second girl I've ever had sex with and I really fawked up. Im paranoid, please help.

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    Default Re: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    Go get tested. Not because you likely have anything, but for your peace of mind.

    Learning experience. Hopefully you don't do anything like this again.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    Get tested. HIV test will only show you your situation 3 months ago. So you need to wait for 3 months before testing for HIV to get the correct results.

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    Default Re: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    don't be too paranoid about hiv, I'd be more worried about her being pregnant.

    did you watch her take the "plan b" ???

    the fact that she mentioned that she could get pregnant means she knew and didn't tell you. maybe she wanted to get pregnant. there are some seriously messed up women out there and you have to protect yourself from them.

    I can't judge you for not wearing a condom. I usually don't either. just next time, make sure she's on birth control before you chance getting her pregnant.

    if you have an std, its likely something a lot more treatable than hiv. (the comen ones are chlamydia and v.d. witch are both highly treatable) get tested so you'll have peace of mind.

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    Default Re: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    Always cover up. No matter what she says unless you plan on settling down with the girl and you've known her for a long time. Even if the girl tells you she's on the pill, do you know her well enough to trust her? Trust your own intuitions an judgement. The UK is one of the worst when it comes psychos who only want to pop out kids so they won't have to work or snatch a man up.

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    Default Re: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    I wouldn't worry about HIV too much but it is a possibility. A good friend of mine recently contracted HIV and he's a heterosexual that does not do drugs. His current girlfriend did not contract it from him even though they had ALLOT of unprotected sex before he was diagnosed.

    That being said it's unlikely to catch HIV from someone EVEN if they have it if you only have vaginal intercourse. My friend with HIV tells me it happens 7% of the time. So besides the fact that very few women have HIV in the first place EVEN if she DID it's unlikely you caught it.

    The biggest STD you should be concerned with is HPV. Half of all people get HPV at some point in their lives. Most people never get symptoms and the immune system takes care of it in a couple years. The other is herpes. Both of these can't be cured so If you get red bumps on your shit go to the doctor.

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    Default Re: I made a huge mistake: Came in her without wrapping it up.

    As everyone else, get yourself tested if you're that worried. I think the chances are you're clean.

    If you worry that much about STDs, you could just always keep a condom on you, following the mindset of "better have it and not need it than need it and not have it."


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