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Thread: How to be serious when your game is about fun?

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    Default How to be serious when your game is about fun?

    I have this girl right now whose showing me hard signs that she's into me. She's playing it cool but being a bit direct with it. The problem is, she's being very serious about the situation as oppose to being a more playful flirtation. This screws my game. I don't know what to do. This has happened before. I run into girls that are very serious. My game is one where I come off as being fun, playful, I flirt in a comedic way. I make them laugh and try to be witty. And I get girls that comply with that sort of game. But how can I get serious when my game isn't about being serious. I feel awakward doing something I don't feel comfortable doing. I feel out of place. And I clearly portray that awakwardness in those moments and I lose the girl. I don't want to lose this girl. I want to know what to do so I can try to make it work with my personality. I feel like in moments like those I can just call her out on her seriousness, make a light joke about it to reel the atmosphere back to where I can control it. But I just don't know. Any help would as always be appreciated!

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    Default Re: How to be serious when your game is about fun?

    Quote Originally Posted by AlexandreUU View Post
    I have this girl right now whose showing me hard signs that she's into me. She's playing it cool but being a bit direct with it. The problem is, she's being very serious about the situation as oppose to being a more playful flirtation. This screws my game. I don't know what to do. This has happened before. I run into girls that are very serious. My game is one where I come off as being fun, playful, I flirt in a comedic way. I make them laugh and try to be witty. And I get girls that comply with that sort of game. But how can I get serious when my game isn't about being serious. I feel awakward doing something I don't feel comfortable doing. I feel out of place. And I clearly portray that awakwardness in those moments and I lose the girl. I don't want to lose this girl. I want to know what to do so I can try to make it work with my personality. I feel like in moments like those I can just call her out on her seriousness, make a light joke about it to reel the atmosphere back to where I can control it. But I just don't know. Any help would as always be appreciated!
    At some point you have to stop being a clown and start being seductive. As Mystery says "Don't be a dancing monkey." Which means putting entertaining women above the goal.. which is sex.


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