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    Question I have a boyfriend

    What is your best reply to her "I have a boyfriend"

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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    "I'm not surprised... I bet he's perfect & the nicest guy ever! By the way, where is he?"
    *wink/smile



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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Look her right in the eyes and say, "oh how cute. I'm sorry you feel so tempted by me that you had to mention it."

    Look her up and down skeptically and add,"But it's not going beyond friends honey." Try to touch her cheek or shoulder also. Kino while turning her down is a good thing.
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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Or.... "Hold on sweetie... I'm not trying to be your boyfriend"...
    you're moving WAAAAAY too fast right now.
    Maybe we should slow down & grab another drink.'




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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Having logically sound answers is overrated, just be like "okay" and if the vibe still keeps on being positive you can pursue her. If she sticks on the boyfriend thing I usually just stop hitting on her .

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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Always keep being awesome. Even if she has a Bf now doesn't mean she always will... Or that she is loyal lol. You can at least turn her into a pivot. Point is, there is usually something to gain even if she has a tight Bf.

    Don't limit yourself. If she wants you to leave her alone, she will give you very clear signs. Unmistakable signs.
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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnymadd1ck View Post
    What is your best reply to her "I have a boyfriend"
    I have a few rules when it comes to "I have a Boyfriend". This is the most common form of rejection I have experienced in the form of I have a BF, I am getting back with my EX, I am waiting for my BF, I am dating someone, etc. The list goes on but the variance still left me at odds.

    First off I have rarely ever overcome the BF Rejection in all my days of getting in the Game and currently only see glimmers of hope but it is the hardest thing to deal with besides approaching. Second I have noticed it is like the brick wall of China and impossible to penetrate. I usually have nothing to say but I have a few rules.

    Rule #1 Give up
    Rule #2 Never Acknowledge the BF (low value)
    Rule #3 Re-engage much later while not acknowledging the BF (high value) for instance Hired Guns

    First of all obviously I have tried combating the I have a BF but it makes me appear weak and look like a retard I mean she just said...and me still trying it is like the worst possible strategy since the BF ends up stalking me and threatening me so this is why I stopped pushing it unless....I really like her and can make a rebound by being more Alpha than I was before and no fear.

    For instance...My current GF I gamed her after the "I am sorry I didn't contact you but that's because I have been dating someone."

    In spite of this icey rejection I turned it around and played it off as cool, calm, and collected. I actually conquered the BF rejection and now she is my girl. Btw I have no idea how I pulled it off I just said no probs we are both single so no pressure and by doing that the other guy went AFC over me and so I think he is done by now but not entirely sure. All I know is she never talks about him no more and again Rule #2 I never acknowledge the BF so I never ask her about no guys. By doing this it actually puts more attention on us and makes me feel less insecure.

    Lastly I got hugely blown out by a 10 on FB who had a fight with me and told me "I told you from Day 1 I have a BF" she was ice cold. So I gave up obviously like no way in hell. So I changed my strategy since I really like her still and have feelings for her and instead of FB approached this Hired Gun back at the Club. But due to Rule #2 I never acknowledge the BF and with that and I didn't bring up the fight. In other words....

    It was the best interaction I had with her yet. I picked her up in a huge hug, she was giggling, petting me, and leaning her head on mine. It was the sweetest thing. Now I have no idea what we are I mean she just said she has a BF and then now I am being more confident she is acting horny again. I am not sure where it is going but I will keep pursuing it and get back to you guys but I probably won't see her for a solid interaction till New Year's. Lastly I have multiple GF's not just one due to my exclusivity rule so I let them find out about each other because the way I see unless we are exclusive and living together I will keep playing the field.

    But yeah there is really no possible way but like I just said I am finding loop holes. But on randoms you just met you are pretty much screwed. I think I fended off my GF because we were talking for a while beforehand and I was playing hard to get with her.
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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Well, T-mal's lines are very good, and so are Lockdown's.

    "Congratulations "

    "Nice. Tell him to bring us the breakfast tomorrow's morning "

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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    Good ones all around.

    Here's my lame one:
    "And I have a dog, and she doesn't mind me meeting new people."

    Here's a better one:
    "I'm sorry I didn't know I was tempting you . . . But don't worry, from the looks of it, you have no chance of getting that far with me."

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    Default Re: I have a boyfriend

    @jacksarge... Dude please go check out Xavier's BY destroyer.

    And your rules are not good. Rule one should never ever be give up. It should be: "Rule1... Never say anything bad about the BF at all."

    If you look at the boyfriend destroyer I mentioned, you will see why. Also, BF is just an easy way to get rid of dumb guys. So don't read too much into that. You can never truly know what's up with her BF and their relationship. Or even if he is truly a BF and not some guy she's hanging with. BF is mostly an excuse imho
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