Re: I have a boyfriend
I have a few rules when it comes to "I have a Boyfriend". This is the most common form of rejection I have experienced in the form of I have a BF, I am getting back with my EX, I am waiting for my BF, I am dating someone, etc. The list goes on but the variance still left me at odds.
Originally Posted by johnnymadd1ck
First off I have rarely ever overcome the BF Rejection in all my days of getting in the Game and currently only see glimmers of hope but it is the hardest thing to deal with besides approaching. Second I have noticed it is like the brick wall of China and impossible to penetrate. I usually have nothing to say but I have a few rules.
Rule #1 Give up
Rule #2 Never Acknowledge the BF (low value)
Rule #3 Re-engage much later while not acknowledging the BF (high value) for instance Hired Guns
First of all obviously I have tried combating the I have a BF but it makes me appear weak and look like a retard I mean she just said...and me still trying it is like the worst possible strategy since the BF ends up stalking me and threatening me so this is why I stopped pushing it unless....I really like her and can make a rebound by being more Alpha than I was before and no fear.
For instance...My current GF I gamed her after the "I am sorry I didn't contact you but that's because I have been dating someone."
In spite of this icey rejection I turned it around and played it off as cool, calm, and collected. I actually conquered the BF rejection and now she is my girl. Btw I have no idea how I pulled it off I just said no probs we are both single so no pressure and by doing that the other guy went AFC over me and so I think he is done by now but not entirely sure. All I know is she never talks about him no more and again Rule #2 I never acknowledge the BF so I never ask her about no guys. By doing this it actually puts more attention on us and makes me feel less insecure.
Lastly I got hugely blown out by a 10 on FB who had a fight with me and told me "I told you from Day 1 I have a BF" she was ice cold. So I gave up obviously like no way in hell. So I changed my strategy since I really like her still and have feelings for her and instead of FB approached this Hired Gun back at the Club. But due to Rule #2 I never acknowledge the BF and with that and I didn't bring up the fight. In other words....
It was the best interaction I had with her yet. I picked her up in a huge hug, she was giggling, petting me, and leaning her head on mine. It was the sweetest thing. Now I have no idea what we are I mean she just said she has a BF and then now I am being more confident she is acting horny again. I am not sure where it is going but I will keep pursuing it and get back to you guys but I probably won't see her for a solid interaction till New Year's. Lastly I have multiple GF's not just one due to my exclusivity rule so I let them find out about each other because the way I see unless we are exclusive and living together I will keep playing the field.
But yeah there is really no possible way but like I just said I am finding loop holes. But on randoms you just met you are pretty much screwed. I think I fended off my GF because we were talking for a while beforehand and I was playing hard to get with her.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.