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Thread: Escalating After The First Meeting

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    Default Escalating After The First Meeting

    Gentleman,

    Rozay here with some new developments in need of MPUA gudiance. Basically, I pulled a HB8 off Tinder and we met up at a bar for about an hour (Used FTC). On our first meetup things went very well, I carried the convo for at least 30-40 minutes of the hour and had her laughing and smiling the whole time. During this time we kept eye contact for long periods and things were good. towards the end, I fell back a bit to give her a chance to add to it, and things got a bit dry (think we were talking about work). We left and were parked in different directions so we split, I initiated a hug, and it was a bit "churchy" not a full embrace.

    I texted her the next day and we talked about how funny my palm read was for her and had a pretty good conversation. we talked about what we both find sexy and what she looks for in guys. I also mentioned watching movies with her and she was quick to say what type of movies "we" should watch. I also texted her yesterday after she was working out and she mentioned "she didn't know if I noticed but she has a booty". all in all, the texting is solid and feels natural.

    It's obvious to me that this girl is attracted to me, though she is not overly flirty. Ive done a good job of not appearing needy and it does not seem that "I am trying to get with her". Although the texting is filled with alot of laughing and is engaging, She has never texted me first, and our conversation has not gotten overly sexual at all. I'm wondering how I transfer this into our next meeting and what it should be, if we mentioned a movie should I invite myslef over to watch one with her? We haven't been physical so it wouldnt make sense to go out to eat right? Last question is, should I do anything on text to steer this in a direction toward escalation before seeing her again or what can I do to escalate this seeing that attraction and rapport are pretty much established? I feel like I need to create an emotional connection or something romantic to get this thing going in the right direction.

    Let me know what you think fellas, I'm a student training to be a master!

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    Default Re: Escalating After The First Meeting

    Escalate in the FIRST "date".
    And quit trying to "entertain" her with tricks & gimmicks.

    Just be genuinely FUN & interesting.

    "Convos" build rapport.... "Rapport" = "Friendzone" if there's no attraction.

    Stop being afraid of making your intentions known. That makes a girl get turned off faster than anything. The whole "timid approach" sucks!!!

    Let her know you're interested... but not by your words...
    do it by your ACTIONS!

    Girls WANT & CRAVE a confident, dominant MAN. BE that Man.
    Stop P*ssy-Footing around & express through your ACTIONS / BODY LANGUAGE that you're physically attracted to her.

    Don't "tell her verbally," because actions DO speak louder than words. SHOW HER!

    Be FUN! Express FUN... BRING the fun!!


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    Default Re: Escalating After The First Meeting

    T-Mal,

    thanks for keeping it real, my next move needs to be to see her again, which has already ben discussed between her and I.What I want to know is where the next meeting should be? Should I straight up say were watching a movie tonight? we've already met in public, Should I take it to a more intimate location to escalate at this point?

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    Default Re: Escalating After The First Meeting

    Do you know what any of her genuine interests are?
    You can find out through playful games like "this or this".

    Examples: Skydiving or deep sea diving? Summer or winter? "Pizza or tacos?" Roller Coasters or Ferris Wheel?" "Scary movies, or comedies?" etc...

    Don't force a "private" encounter before you've expressed that you're genuinely fun. (And YES, you CAN convey that even JUST through texting / emailing/ phone... and without an "in person" meet up.)

    In fact, you SHOULD be able to convey that sort of fun vibe through messaging so that the girl WANTS to get together & be with you.

    My current GF was soooooo ready to "meet me" that she grabbed my face & shoved her tongue down my throat in the first moment we "met in real life".

    I spent 6 days messaging her through POF & texting over the phone.
    And the last 2 nights before we met, we skyped...

    So don't think you "have to kino" to get a kiss.
    All you NEED is an emotional connection/reaction.

    And it's SOOOOO much easier to build that in real life, than it is via messages. (And it's absolutely possible to do it via messages... so real life shouldn't be an issue).


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