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    BigKountry87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help shaking feeling of being unmotivated...

    Hello all,

    So my problem is this. Whenever I am in the vicinity of an HB I want to approach, I get this feeling of laziness, and I end up kicking myself afterwards. It's not approach anxiety, or at least I don't believe so, because it's not a feeling of nervousness, but more like a feeling of "I have something better I could be doing."

    The problem stems from when I was living in Florida for 4 or so years. My job kept me constantly traveling and I had almost zero time to spend practicing game. Before this, I practiced on every girl I saw. Getting them to flirt back was kind of a game for me. But after moving to Florida and with the new job,I had got so used to being without it that I, in essence, lost it. I never even gave it a second thought.

    So now I am practically hardwired to think otherwise. Does or did anybody ever experience something similar? What was your motivator? Any system to get back on track?

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    xHITCHx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help shaking feeling of being unmotivated...

    I have been feeling this feeling sometimes of laziness and being unmotivated as well.

    Part of it is, like you, a busy schedule that keeps me pretty hard on myself to constantly be striving to become the best I can be.
    It's that mixed with my first and recent PUA experience that's had me feeling a mix of good ol' Approach Anxiety and what you are experiencing.
    I think a good way of breaking out of this slump of your's is to ask yourself: "Why am I interested in getting back into PUA?" "What are my goals once I am back in the game?"
    Find your motive for even wanting to game again in the first place.

    This should be the spark of motivation you need to get back on your feet and use them to approach your "prey" like you did in your glory days!
    Last edited by xHITCHx; 09-28-2014 at 03:25 AM. Reason: Spelling
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