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    Hot dang 3 10's in a matter of 3 weeks holy crap my GF is gonna kill me!! Well she flirts with and talks about hanging out with guys in my face so screw her. Anyway I posted her photo on my IG and my GF watches me like a hawk, chooses my friends, and gets jealous but she can sit there and make out with guys and invite them over and just sit there "working sh!t out" like fine if she wants to play those games...and I don't care if she breaks up with me!

    She is so fine (the10) she deleted Her FB. But I found her KIKID, score! Time to hit it and hit it and hit it. She is my kinda girl. Says she lives to make men happy so I just tagged her photo as a "10" in my stuff so we'll see how it goes. But likely my girl is gonna get jeally! Gonna hit her up on KIK soon. Any ideas how I should play the frame??
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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    Hot dang 3 10's in a matter of 3 weeks holy crap my GF is gonna kill me!! Well she flirts with and talks about hanging out with guys in my face so screw her. Anyway I posted her photo on my IG and my GF watches me like a hawk, chooses my friends, and gets jealous but she can sit there and make out with guys and invite them over and just sit there "working sh!t out" like fine if she wants to play those games...and I don't care if she breaks up with me!

    She is so fine (the10) she deleted Her FB. But I found her KIKID, score! Time to hit it and hit it and hit it. She is my kinda girl. Says she lives to make men happy so I just tagged her photo as a "10" in my stuff so we'll see how it goes. But likely my girl is gonna get jeally! Gonna hit her up on KIK soon. Any ideas how I should play the frame??
    Any "girlfriend" pulling hypocritical shit like that should be kicking rocks. Why are you waiting for her to break up with you? She's dissing you bad. In her mind you are her beta bitch.

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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Man! The friggin 10 blocked me on IG. Batting all zero's with these 10's man. But I put up with the crap from HB9's cuz that's the best I can get right now. At least she talks to me and hangs with me whenever I want. The 10's are frozen in ice and never barely get at em and when I do blocked before I can get a foot off the ground. I guess 10's really are "unattainable"!!
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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    But I agree it is hypocritical BS. She picks and chooses which of her friends I can befriend on FB which means she says "NO" on the hot ones but yes on the plain Jane's. Then we go out and she lets other guys spoil the sh!t out of her while I get stuck on the sidelines. But she makes me pamper her like a princess.

    Her most indecent move is when she is making out with some guy she is dating, flirting, or grinding with some dude then turns to me and asks "what's wrong?" I just want b!tch her out like you slow or somtin? But I just let her stomp on my heart. But I am trying hard to replace her with a 10 but they keep blowing me out and she has called me her BF several times...soo dunno it's a "casual relationship" we just met so obviously nothing is serious yet. But don't forgets am playing her too! Looking for her replacement and picking up chicks when she is not around. It's just hard on FB cuz she babysits me and a very jealous kind of person. But her friends are always hitting on me so to get back at her I just let them now.
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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    You're dealing with a control freak & someone who is a jealous type.
    NOBODY but YOU should be able to decide who you can be friends with... whether it's on FB or in real life.

    Also- about these "Unicorns":
    You're putting waaaaaay too much pressure & focus on "getting a 10"... (which honestly, kinda makes you come across as insecure & validation-seeking.)

    You're chasing.... AND, you're creating a specific type of outcome dependence for yourself.
    This is totally becoming a sticking point for you, and your overall growth can be hindered by this type of tunnel vision.

    You also need to stop being vindictive.
    You mention doing certain things to "get back at the girls" when they rub you the wrong way. That's totally beta.

    It's a natural first instinct that most people have, but you have to maintain composure & stay in control of your emotions... NOT be reactive of them.

    But I really think you're over-obsessed right now. I would totally recommend down-shifting to a lower gear & cruising a little easier for a bit.



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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    But I agree it is hypocritical BS. She picks and chooses which of her friends I can befriend on FB which means she says "NO" on the hot ones but yes on the plain Jane's. Then we go out and she lets other guys spoil the sh!t out of her while I get stuck on the sidelines. But she makes me pamper her like a princess.

    Her most indecent move is when she is making out with some guy she is dating, flirting, or grinding with some dude then turns to me and asks "what's wrong?" I just want b!tch her out like you slow or somtin? But I just let her stomp on my heart. But I am trying hard to replace her with a 10 but they keep blowing me out and she has called me her BF several times...soo dunno it's a "casual relationship" we just met so obviously nothing is serious yet. But don't forgets am playing her too! Looking for her replacement and picking up chicks when she is not around. It's just hard on FB cuz she babysits me and a very jealous kind of person. But her friends are always hitting on me so to get back at her I just let them now.
    Why "replace" her? Just be completely single and deal. The fact is.as long as you are under this woman's thumb you will never attain your goals. She will always be there in the back of your mind ruining your inner game. She is toxic, and you have a dependence problem with her.

    I was shocked when you wrote what she did to you in public, her.complete emasculation of you IN PUBLIC. That is completely unforgivable man! Chuck her. Learn to stand with no need for a woman at all.

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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Back by popular opinion...here we go again. I don't know what it is but I feel like I am under fierce scrutiny at times. The Tatts, the car, the HB10's, ugh but here we go again!

    I know we have had this discussion about opposing my beliefs before but the reality is that these women I call "10's" still do exist so the problem itself is not going away. To give you the brass tax here I am always open-minded to good advice but to me you cannot argue the "observations, results, or behavioral patterns" I have encountered.

    Sure you guys can always change my opinion and have before! However only I can change my own perception.

    But to curtail this issue I would like to state the following observations...

    Encountered 45 HB9's and 12 HB10's.

    Of those interactions 0 can be categorized as one "joint" strain as in "dropping the scale" maybe you think it is me having limiting beliefs but I can guarantee you "dropping the scale" is not going to make things turn from the worse.

    1st Logical Issue with "dropping the scale"

    For one in Set and in field I don't have time to pre-game and dissect fast enough to know what she is "on the scale" I follow the 3 second rule unless it is a logistical nightmare then I give it 5-10 min to think of a better approach. I only have time to pump state, pre-game mindset, come up with a opener, and build the frame. That's it I don't have time to say to myself "that's a 10". Cuz I usually rate after the Set not before that's calibration for us! Online is different so due to less stimulation I will know before opening cuz I can sit there and think if she is a 10 or not.

    2nd Logical Issue with "Dropping the scale"
    I can game HB9's like Mr. Confident. But with 10's I am Mr. No Game

    But again this is not due to my pre-thinking "oh that's a friggin 10" I view all girls as fair game it's just looking back I see the differences between the two. For one I act differently around 9's a full blown PUA. Around 10's a little kid in a candy store. But I don't pick up on these inconsistencies until AFTER the set in set too much stimulation to be thinking thinking thinking.

    So dropping the scale won't change my reactionary vibes I am putting out. It won't change a thing except screw up my game with the 9's. By knowing and owning with the 9's I have all the power but if I give that power back the I will be handicapping myself so again my perception cannot change without huge repercussions. So X nay on that.

    3rd and final logical issue with "dropping the scale"

    This is prolly the MOST intriguing. 10's think like 10's and 9's think like 9's without any interference or say on my part.

    For instance...

    The HB9 by default "no scale"
    I own, pwn, and dominate. Re-approach, bounce, k-close, n-close, kino, push-pull, Get validated, get chased, get dates.

    The HB10 by default "no scale"
    I get owned, get pwned, get flaked on, but most commonly get ignored, blocked, flamed, trolled, etc.

    These are the surprising differences from the "rating system" some very interesting results. The truth is I get results picking up on 9's and I get played picking up 10's.

    So that is not going to change. I was more of looking for advice on How To PickUp 10's not an assessment of my inner game rating system. That's great you guys are so concerned about my inner game and well being but I need advice for getting 10's not making "10's" disappear in my mind by acting like they don't exist!!
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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    Why "replace" her? Just be completely single and deal. The fact is.as long as you are under this woman's thumb you will never attain your goals. She will always be there in the back of your mind ruining your inner game. She is toxic, and you have a dependence problem with her.

    I was shocked when you wrote what she did to you in public, her.complete emasculation of you IN PUBLIC. That is completely unforgivable man! Chuck her. Learn to stand with no need for a woman at all.

    I would however one small little problem. My social value has sky rocketed from knowing her. My social circle has grown her friends are options when she is gone and she is good to me. She is the best GF prolly ever. She has never ignored a single text in 2 months so I cannot say that about hardly anyone. Plus she won't let me break up with her I already tried. She told me I cannot. The best way out is to replace her which I am working on the hairstylist for this reason. Also if I breakup with her would have to be a complete d!ck and that's not my style. Plus I am just waiting for her to break up with me but we already agreed to another date. So I am stuck with this chick I was dateless for a decade so trust me it's better to have this hot crazy chick than no one. She has taught me a lot. And given me tons of new friends. Plus at the end of the day I still sleep in her bed not some other dude. And the way she looks at me makes me feel so good. And I love her laugh. I love when she makes fun of me. I love when she asks me for something cuz I know she just wants a reason to talk to me. So there are pros and cons! But yes I need a better GF but the 10's have treated me far worse need I remind you? A 10 had a dude shut me down when I called her after 10 nuff said! Cuz she wanted it in the afternoon and I called her in the evening, that quick my luck can change with 10's!
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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    Back by popular opinion...here we go again. I don't know what it is but I feel like I am under fierce scrutiny at times. The Tatts, the car, the HB10's, ugh but here we go again!

    I know we have had this discussion about opposing my beliefs before but the reality is that these women I call "10's" still do exist so the problem itself is not going away. To give you the brass tax here I am always open-minded to good advice but to me you cannot argue the "observations, results, or behavioral patterns" I have encountered.

    Sure you guys can always change my opinion and have before! However only I can change my own perception.

    But to curtail this issue I would like to state the following observations...

    Encountered 45 HB9's and 12 HB10's.

    Of those interactions 0 can be categorized as one "joint" strain as in "dropping the scale" maybe you think it is me having limiting beliefs but I can guarantee you "dropping the scale" is not going to make things turn from the worse.

    1st Logical Issue with "dropping the scale"

    For one in Set and in field I don't have time to pre-game and dissect fast enough to know what she is "on the scale" I follow the 3 second rule unless it is a logistical nightmare then I give it 5-10 min to think of a better approach. I only have time to pump state, pre-game mindset, come up with a opener, and build the frame. That's it I don't have time to say to myself "that's a 10". Cuz I usually rate after the Set not before that's calibration for us! Online is different so due to less stimulation I will know before opening cuz I can sit there and think if she is a 10 or not.

    2nd Logical Issue with "Dropping the scale"
    I can game HB9's like Mr. Confident. But with 10's I am Mr. No Game

    But again this is not due to my pre-thinking "oh that's a friggin 10" I view all girls as fair game it's just looking back I see the differences between the two. For one I act differently around 9's a full blown PUA. Around 10's a little kid in a candy store. But I don't pick up on these inconsistencies until AFTER the set in set too much stimulation to be thinking thinking thinking.

    So dropping the scale won't change my reactionary vibes I am putting out. It won't change a thing except screw up my game with the 9's. By knowing and owning with the 9's I have all the power but if I give that power back the I will be handicapping myself so again my perception cannot change without huge repercussions. So X nay on that.

    3rd and final logical issue with "dropping the scale"

    This is prolly the MOST intriguing. 10's think like 10's and 9's think like 9's without any interference or say on my part.

    For instance...

    The HB9 by default "no scale"
    I own, pwn, and dominate. Re-approach, bounce, k-close, n-close, kino, push-pull, Get validated, get chased, get dates.

    The HB10 by default "no scale"
    I get owned, get pwned, get flaked on, but most commonly get ignored, blocked, flamed, trolled, etc.

    These are the surprising differences from the "rating system" some very interesting results. The truth is I get results picking up on 9's and I get played picking up 10's.

    So that is not going to change. I was more of looking for advice on How To PickUp 10's not an assessment of my inner game rating system. That's great you guys are so concerned about my inner game and well being but I need advice for getting 10's not making "10's" disappear in my mind by acting like they don't exist!!
    The reason everyone is harping on your inner game is because your writings betray disturbing psychological red flags. You are obsessed with finding a silver bullet technique for the elite women, but there isn't one. Fashion models, actresses and other high value women are of course the hardest women to win. If your game is tight enough to pull 9's like you said then the problem isn't with your outer game. The problem is inside your mind.

    Some of the things you admit:

    Getting an entire sleeve tat done, not because of any particular interest but just to get girls. That is bad inner game.

    Staying with an abusive woman, because you are afraid to go dateless. Bad inner game. No "best gf ever" makes out with other men in front of you and then says "What?" And makes you sit there and watch. No repectable man, let alone PUA pulling 9's puts up with that. It makes me sick to know you pull 9's yet your confidence is that low that you'll.take that treatment.

    The fact that you need this woman to generate social value on your behalf proves you haven't reached the proper level for world class women yet. Those women are normally reserved for rock stars, high end executives, etc. And you better have a lot more to offer than just the trappings of outer game.

    I seen plenty of pick up videos and even the greats like mystery don't pull world class women very often.

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    Default Re: New Target: Yep another Mythical Unicorn need help

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    The reason everyone is harping on your inner game is because your writings betray disturbing psychological red flags. You are obsessed with finding a silver bullet technique for the elite women, but there isn't one. Fashion models, actresses and other high value women are of course the hardest women to win. If your game is tight enough to pull 9's like you said then the problem isn't with your outer game. The problem is inside your mind.

    Some of the things you admit:

    Getting an entire sleeve tat done, not because of any particular interest but just to get girls. That is bad inner game.

    Staying with an abusive woman, because you are afraid to go dateless. Bad inner game. No "best gf ever" makes out with other men in front of you and then says "What?" And makes you sit there and watch. No repectable man, let alone PUA pulling 9's puts up with that. It makes me sick to know you pull 9's yet your confidence is that low that you'll.take that treatment.

    The fact that you need this woman to generate social value on your behalf proves you haven't reached the proper level for world class women yet. Those women are normally reserved for rock stars, high end executives, etc. And you better have a lot more to offer than just the trappings of outer game.

    I seen plenty of pick up videos and even the greats like mystery don't pull world class women very often.
    Ughh here we go AGAIN but I am not giving you guys the tatt story for the 100th time. So the short version. I got tatted cuz numerous 10's were saying they would go at lightning speed after a guy with TATTS, won't go out with a guy without TATTS, and lastly TATTS are their weakness. I was just trying to game then as I was and this is what I kept hearing so I got fed up. Now that my sleeve is almost finished guess who keeps commenting and checking and scoping? Hot gorgeous women they just eat it up like I am some kinda glorious freak of nature. They call me "sexy" and hell yes I am starting to feel sexy. Because hardly any males have sleeves it makes me feel very unique among the masses so TATTS are still pretty uncommon.

    And what are you saying now I can't game 10's? Challenge accepted. They have talked to me even tried to hookup with me but I miss the buck so I just need to be on point is all I am saying. And next year I am going strictly for 10's so get used to it. I used to say on here I was only going to go for 9's and 10's and ya'll thought I was crazy but now it is becoming reality. Just wait I am gonna try to pull a 10 hope you don't have to eat your words mate. I haven't tried but believe me when I start "actually trying" it will happen. Everything I try "happens" I am just magical like that. And models ain't that hot not compared to the girls I like to hang out with.

    But you keep thinking that. And yet didn't we already discover I am an attention whore so why breakup with my GF? She is freaking awesome! I played her. I put her on hold for a month, cut off the sexual intrigue cuz I lost interest so it serves her right for getting it elsewhere. She told me the night I met her I could "have her any time I want her" so that was a huge turnoff and why I have been ignoring her so much. But I am just now starting to ramp up the sexual intrigue again and she is on board. It's just I want her when other guy's hit on her and when she throws herself at me I want her to get away from me. It's my dreamworld she is living in. I treat her like that cuz she don't turn me on like a 10 now if she was I never would have pushed her away like that.

    But after all...what did I say!! I said I got into The Game to get a GF!? Now you guys are telling me to dump a HB9? Who's the crazy one? My goal was to get a GF. Mission accomplished and she ain't going anywhere till I get dumped. Now in the meantime trust me a new girl is on the horizon but she is also a 9 so don't flip your cookies when she is psycho too! My new goal is to sleep with 10's so these 9's are nothing LTR worthy so why you guys are trying to steal my fun I dunno. I am just using her for a ride don't forget that. I'll get serious when I get a HB10 GF until then I am just playing these 9's so I don't care what anyone thinks these girls are a smashing good time. Or are you saying I should stop picking up chicks? Like get real. I ain't gonna stop this is a pickup chick site and you are telling me to forget women is nonsense. They are all crazy all of them!! So just forget about me finding a good one unless I start dating HB5's.
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