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Thread: My Biggest Sticking Point:Transition from Comfort to Seduction

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    Default My Biggest Sticking Point:Transition from Comfort to Seduction

    Well after close self examination of recent encounters. I've come to realize that I have a major common sticking point in transitioning from comfort into seduction. There always seems to come a point when there is nothing left to be said regarding eliciting values and DHV's and it's time to move on to more physical theme or the conversation falls apart.

    Some women make it quite easy due to overwhelming attraction, but many seem to be on the fence, they may be heavily attracted but I have a hard time succeeding at turning them on, making them horny.

    Sure I can open, attract, qualify, comfort them. But the key power I have inconsistent application is using my immense verbal skills to turn then on physically.

    So, when you guys reach that point where the vanilla fluff talk and the DHV's are done and you need to begin seducing, where do you start? How do you get the conversation to transition from attractive banter and garden variety flirting, to bedroom talk, talking dirty, sex themes, etc

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    Default Re: My Biggest Sticking Point:Transition from Comfort to Seduction

    First of all, make sure you incorporate touch early on. Slowly... build let it build & progress naturally throughout the entire interaction.

    Then, after you've built attraction & a little comfort, make a statement of intent. Tell her directly with a smile something like, "You know, if you don't stop being so darn cute, I'm totally gonna start hitting on you.".

    Chances are, she's gonna smile, blush, laugh, or something to that effect. If she sticks around & continues to keep talking, then she's giving you permission to increase the escalation & seduction phase.

    I got this technique from one of the BEST teachers of seduction, Jon Sinn.

    Another little technique is to make comments like (after she says something) "Wow... that's really cool. I think you're very interesting.... And I really do mean that, even though I'm totally trying to get in your pants." *wink/smile & playful touch like a light elbow or slap on the side of her arm.

    You're basically gauging her reaction & acceptance of continued escalation.

    And again, if there's positive body language & she sticks around, then you have permission to continue.

    If she gets freaked out & uncomfortable & ejects, then it's time to go. (AND, you probably went there too soon... so you have to be aware & know when to use this... but it works!)


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    Default Re: My Biggest Sticking Point:Transition from Comfort to Seduction

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    First of all, make sure you incorporate touch early on. Slowly... build let it build & progress naturally throughout the entire interaction.

    Then, after you've built attraction & a little comfort, make a statement of intent. Tell her directly with a smile something like, "You know, if you don't stop being so darn cute, I'm totally gonna start hitting on you.".

    Chances are, she's gonna smile, blush, laugh, or something to that effect. If she sticks around & continues to keep talking, then she's giving you permission to increase the escalation & seduction phase.

    I got this technique from one of the BEST teachers of seduction, Jon Sinn.

    Another little technique is to make comments like (after she says something) "Wow... that's really cool. I think you're very interesting.... And I really do mean that, even though I'm totally trying to get in your pants." *wink/smile & playful touch like a light elbow or slap on the side of her arm.

    You're basically gauging her reaction & acceptance of continued escalation.

    And again, if there's positive body language & she sticks around, then you have permission to continue.

    If she gets freaked out & uncomfortable & ejects, then it's time to go. (AND, you probably went there too soon... so you have to be aware & know when to use this... but it works!)
    Excellent, that is exactly what I was looking for. Thanks man.

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    Default Re: My Biggest Sticking Point:Transition from Comfort to Seduction

    T-Mal's way is very good.
    There's also an indirect way. It requires touching off course. While you're listening to her, or talking to her, look to her eyes and to her mouth. Eyes-mouth-eyes-mouth. And smile. A little smile.
    This is particularly effective if you're playing some game that involves touching (which is also a way of escalating it). If she reciprocates then green light.


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