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    Long story short I was gaming a 7 for practice. After telling me that she as tattoos on her back I negged her by saying that that's cool and all but I prefer tattoos on parts of the body that show and held out my arms to show off my sleeves, I then followed up with "and besides you're not my type anyway". She then went full aggro on me. My response was a smile and agree with her that I'm an high and mighty A hole. My question is how could I have handled the situation better

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    Default Re: how to deal with hostile targets

    Why neg her?
    That's where you made the mistake. There was no reason to do that.

    When she mentioned she has tattoos, you should have said something more playful like "Nice! I bet you screamed like a little girl though when you got it... right?" *Wink/smile/playful elbow nudge.

    Or, ask her WHY she got them... like what do they represent? What's the meaning behind them. Then you could have gotten her to talk about herself a bit & start opening up because you showed genuine interest in something personal about her, rather than just her looks like most guys do.

    You really almost never need to neg a girl. (Especially in THIS case).

    You gave her TWO, back to back, when it was inappropriate.


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    Default Re: how to deal with hostile targets

    Okay then I have found my problem. When is it appropriate to neg?

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    Default Re: how to deal with hostile targets

    You should actually avoid negging... unless the girl is a true "10" and she's all high & mighty, and acting like she's better than everyone.

    But even then, you have to make it somewhat playful. Otherwise you're just insulting her; which WILL cause her to react in a more hostile way.

    So keep it light... like, "Your nose wiggles when you talk, it's kinda cute".

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    "Ya know, you have a slightly crooked smile, I think it's adorable"

    Should you ever need to neg, do it in a sort of push-pull way like that. And always be sure to give a cheeky smile so you build attraction, rather than animosity.


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