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    Default what are my chances with this girl?

    So I've started uni this week and there's this really cute girl in my class. She's hands down the most beautiful of the bunch.

    On the second day, the class was heading for a meeting at the library and this girl was walking ahead of me. As she arrived to the door and opened it, she suddenly turned back and looked at me. I took this as the "come over and talk to me" signal.But instead of doing so, my mind went completely blank and I could not come up with anything to say.

    The following day, i walked up next to her desk to greet some guys and as they replied back to me she looks at me, calls me by my name and asks me where I'm from ( She initiates contact and more importantly She already knows my name without having to introduce myself which surprised me a bit given that it's been like three days of class only/possible IOIs?)

    today I approached her during lunch and had a 5 min chat with her.It went fine, I bantered and teased her, to which she laughed and seemed responsive.Later on when she came to class and saw me she smiled at me.

    What are your thoughts on this one? Is she into me or just being friendly?
    Also considering that I'm probably gonna run up against some competition(some dudes are clearly into her as well) what should be my upcoming strategy with her? Should I take things slowly and get to know her better or should I try to escalate things quickly before any other guy manages to have any chance with her? Or maybe I should go for a push/pull method...as in neglect her for a few days and go talk to some other girls and then talk to her the following two days.

    I appreciate your feedback.

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    Default Re: what are my chances with this girl?

    Waiting for a couple days isn't "push-pull"... that's freezing a girl out. And right now there's NO reason to do that.

    By waiting, you jeopardize your potential success by losing momentum & giving other guys a chance to be fun & exciting; which means you could lose her for sure.

    Trying to "take it slow & get to know her" is a great option.... if all you want is to be her "friend".

    However; if you're interested in being MORE THAN friends, then you need to make a move & start flirting. Project a fun, interesting vibe that sets you apart from every other chump who is most likely gonna be going after her.


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    Default Re: what are my chances with this girl?

    T-Mal great comments. Love your viewpoint here so strongly I know how to plan my next move on the hairstylist!
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: what are my chances with this girl?

    Thanks T-Mal for your reply, just one more thing about kino...Should I use any of it during Uni or that would be putting too much pressure on her in front of our colleagues....I casually tapped her on her arm while talking to her during our last convo.

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    Default Re: what are my chances with this girl?

    ALWAYS touch whenever possible. Just calibrate so it's not too much at first. Gradually increase the amount and length of touch as you go along.

    But start with little touches, high-fives, playful elbow nudges, hip bumps, light backhand smacks on her thigh, etc.



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