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Thread: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

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    Default Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    Okay guys i really need some advice on this one so i don't fark things up.
    So I've known this HB for a while, basically shes an ex of a friend of mine and broke up about a year ago and i couple of weeks ago i arranged with another friend to go to a club and she came with us (i didn't know that she was coming).
    At the club we small talked, she introduced me to some male friends of hers that were there, we danced, took photos etc. It was pretty much an awesome night regardless of what was going to happen with her. I was reluctant to attempt to seduce her/kiss her because as i said she's an ex of a friend and i didn't want her to say anything to him or anyone else or consider me a creep or something.
    A few days later she sent me a msg on Facebook with photos from that night. We small talked a little bit and then we said good night.
    After some thought i said fark it, and i sent her a msg on Facebook asking her if she has ever been to bar X. She answered "i cannot come tonight i am at Limassol" (other city). I answered "i didn't ask you to come, i just asked if you have been there. Is it any good?" She said "Yes it plays really good music". I said "I've always wanted to go there but i can't find anyone to accompany me". She said "we will go together when i come back to Nicosia" (our city). We didn't really arrange a date so a few days later i sent her a msg "Angel I will come and pick you up tonight so we can go to X". She said "Darling i cannot come, i am still in Limassol" So i told her "Ok no prob, i just want to know what im going to do" (i didn't say "with you" or "tonight" i left the statement open to interpretation). She said "We can go to Guaba on Sunday" (The club we went met the last time). I said "That's a good idea".
    So when i meet with her how should i proceed, does she view me as a friend or is she interested? Any advice will be greatly appreciated

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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    I would say you're still in Limbo. You probably don't have enough attraction yet, but you're not written off as "just a friend" yet. Basically, when you meet her (if she doesn't cancel) is when you will have your chance to build attraction
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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    I think you're good. I'd view it as a date.

    Still def build attraction

    But it's a date

    Your biggest mistake was asking her again, and saying I'll pick you up tonight, right off the bat. You don't know where she's at or If she has plans. I mean even if a girl is in town you generally offer her 2 options somehow

    But regardless, she said she couldn't (with a legitimate reason) AND suggested an alternative. Which means she wants to hang out with you. Don't second guess yourself.

    When you meet her, give her a hug, maybe put your arm around her to escort her in the club. Be confident and play it straight, you have a date that wants to see you
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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    Ok, thanks guys for the quick reply!

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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    Hey guys, follow up from date with HB.

    I went to the club alone at the time we arranged, called her and she told me that she would be there in 10 minutes. I waited for her outside and she ended up coming 40 minutes later with two female friends of hers. I was kinda pissed off but i tried not to show it. She introduced me to her friends and we moved on into the club.

    Note that this is a very high energy girl, as soon as we went in she started drinking, dancing, and socializing with acquaintances of hers, mostly from the VIP area (I assumed she wanted in). After a while another female friend of her joined the group and they introduced me to her as well. I managed to talka a little bit with her and dance a little but things were rough, she went from me, to her friends, to the VIP area and back, i stayed and talked with her friends while she was gone. This situation made it difficult for me to isolate her, or maybe my timing was wrong.

    Btw i'm 26y 6.1 200lb athletic, so girls usually "use me" to push guys away from them. When guys went near the HB i stared at them and they got the message without HB noticing of course. One of her friends also asked me to handle a guy that was trying to game her. Also HB told me that one of the guys from the VIP told her "Im afraid of the guy with you" referring to me and she said "Aw he's a very good friend of mine" In general is this bad?

    Anyway, by the end of the night all of her friends were drunk but HB was hanging in. At one point i found myself alone because her friends went outside for a while. I opened a set so i wouldn't "cool down" while i was alone. Nothing special happened we were just teasing each other. HB came to me and i told her that her friends weren't feeling well and went outside. I managed to dance with her some more but she seemed pissed of so i couldn't escalate. Then one of the girls came back totally wasted and HB told me "i have to go with her" and left. I assumed that she was coming back to say good night and all, but i waited for 30 minutes and she didn't come back. So i thought fuck it, and left, went to my car and drove home. I texted her on the way home to ask whether her friend was ok but haven't got any answer.

    In general i felt like a bitch from her behavior, so it seems that things are done with her. Or not? Should i contact her again? If she contacts me should i show my annoyance?

    Advice would be highly appreciated!

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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    It seems you didn't manage to integrate yourself with her friends. To steal the girl, steal her friends first! Once you're best buddy with all her friends, it all works like magic. If you stayed as an "outsider" to her group, that might explain her reaction.
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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    The good friend of mine line is bad, but not horrible, its kinda what you'd expect her to say.

    Naked Truth is right above.

    But overall yea I understand she put you in an awkward situation. Good job working on some approaches. Advice going forward, slow down your texts for a few days, re-build some fun text rapport (pictures always work), then suggest another event. It's not guaranteed at all, but pursue every thread ya got.
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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    Thanks for the feedback guys! Quick update, HB texted me last night apologizing that she put me in an awkward situation, that she had to take care of her friends and that she was really tired. Then she sent another text telling me that she hopes we can arrange to go X (The place i originally suggested to go). Wtf? I replied in the morning telling her "Don't worry darling". I've already started gaming another girl on fb, and also planning to go out on Saturday to meet someone else. How should i deal with HB? (note that shes my primary interest)

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    Default Re: Need help to seduce HB, not sure if she only wants to be friends.

    Deal with her as you would with any other girl. How? By flirting, gaming, whatever you wanna call it.

    "Hum... well... I can go out with you... but to be with such a celebrity it's kind of a gift... but I accept... only if you buy me a soda/whatever! "

    However, don't reschedule with the other girl just to be with the first one.


    Regarding the "Don't worry darling", bad answer. You should have taken the opportunity to tease her


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