Hello all! I'm fairly new to these forums, seemed like a really good place to get some much needed advice. I'll try to make this as simple as possible.
I work with this girl who is 18, I'm almost 22. We started flirting like crazy when she got hired and it was the mean kind of flirt, you guys understand. It was fun and harmless and everyone in the office knew what was up. Well, one day last two weeks ago a coworker of mine told me, "She likes you". I denied it and she told me she'd prove it (they both worked the night shift, I worked day shift, so we kind of saw each other for a bit) but She did. She came back telling me that her words were, "I am very attracted to him and he's really funny! I didn't even know he liked me like that!" and my coworker replied, "So go home and think about what you would say if he asked you out" So I was shocked and excited. I went for this girl and we started texting a little and she had asked me to switch to a few nights so that she could hang out with me more.
I did. So I thought, lets ask her to dinner. I was working her shift and I did Tuesday. She said, "Yeah if you want" with a smile. So later that day she texted me during work and said, "Can we do it tomorrow? My dad wants to meet me for dinner". I was obviously pissed off but I said sure.
So the next day I easily asked her if we were on for that day, she said yeah...and i took her out for her dinner break! It went great, according to the both of us! My coworker asked her and she said, "He's great! He's really funny and fun! I had a great time!" Only thing is, her phone went off a few times and it kind of bothered me, but i shrugged it off.
She didn't text me that whole rest of the day though, and the next day I worked her shift and I played the game. I didn't say a word to her and she broke and came into my office and said hey and talked to me for a bit and flirted, and said she was glad I was working her shift.
So, in return... I asked her this past Friday, I said, " What are you doing Saturday at 6:00ish"? She said, "Probably still moving in my apartment, i got a lot of stuff to do."
I looked at her and smiled and said, "Work with me" and she smiled and I said "what about Sunday?" and she said, "I am free Sunday." and smiled. I said alright. I'll pick you up Sunday around 6 or 6:30, I'll text you" and she smiled and said "okay"
Texted her today. Said, "Goodmorning! Just making sure we're still good for this evening?" and her reply was, "well idk i got fired" and we discussed the reasons and it was because she was late too much. She said, "I'm still moving a few things but i'll let you know" I told her, "i know you may not feel up to it, but Id be happy to take you out tonight. it will get your mind off of everything and i promise you'll have fun " she said "lol okay. Well I'll text you and let you know when I'm done. "
NOTHING. She looked at my snapchat story though. Had time for that.
What the hell is going on?