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Thread: How to respond to this flake? She said to text back to hang

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    Default How to respond to this flake? She said to text back to hang

    Have an hb8 tinder match, got her number and texted her on Tuesday, texted her and set a coffee date for today. After she engaged a convo and we chatted, nothing flirtatious but build rapport and she was pretty interested. Later that night I asked her if she worked out asked me she said it was her rest day and tomorrow (Wednesday) she's doing back and bis and asked if I had work tomorrow (wed). I told her "good excuse for being lazy lol. I work everyday, why?" She didn't respond at all and finally today she sent me a text saying she couldn't make it tonight because she has a group project and no one did any work, and for me to text if I'm around her area(college campus) because we'll hang.

    I haven't responded yet but should I play the same no reply game back that she did to me or say "alright, I'll let you know" or is there a better response?

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    Default Re: How to respond to this flake? She said to text back to hang

    Never "ask a girl out" before you build attraction.
    Attraction is the key to avoiding flakes.

    Rapport doesn't build attraction... and if that's all you build, you're not giving her anything to make her WANT to meet up.

    I would message her something like "Dang, you need cooler people to work with! It's not fair for them to make you do everything while they sit back & goof off. You should totally lay the smack down! But I'll keep you posted about if I'm in the area or not. (Then you can buy me a drink) "

    Just be PLAYFUL. Don't force rapport. Flirt.


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    Default Re: How to respond to this flake? She said to text back to hang

    Slightly off topic. Tinder has just been in the news here in the UK, there's some bad press about it now. A girl responded to a date, got drugged and gang raped. This just has repercussions on all the decent guys who are genuinely looking for soul mates.

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    Default Re: How to respond to this flake? She said to text back to hang

    Thats no different than any other situation in regards to dating... Whatever news hypes bad press its all fear mongering and meant to reinforce walls that you have to break through to get to her. Same rules will always apply--flirt, build attraction build rapport and always let her make up her mind while you stand out from the crowd
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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