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    Default Re: Seeing a stripper on the side

    Just remember your happiness is not dependent upon her. Unless you both are commited to each other neither of you are responsible for how each other feels. Do your thing.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Seeing a stripper on the side

    Late response...so it may or may not already happened.

    Let me get this straight - She took you to a VIP room and you paid nothing?
    I find that hard to believe. Not sure how that club works, but in most clubs (at least here in the US in the big cities), you pay as soon as you enter a VIP room with a girl. That is because the club usually takes 50% cut and the girl gets paid out at the end of the night.

    Also if you spent 4 hours there and the girl made nothing off of you, then that is 4 hours of work she lost. If she did that for you, then that's some high IOIs and major compliance passed.

    I live by the rule "You give...I give" "You don't move...I don't move"

    Keep your expectations low. Don't overplan.

    Not sure if I am clear if you two arranged a scheduled date. If you did, just hit her up with a text a day before your date to confirm: "Hey [x], we still rolling over at [x place] tomorrow?"

    If she flakes and says she cannot make it for w/e reason, don't be a chump and say "Well how about x day?"

    Let her be the one to suggest an alternative date. If she really is into you she will.

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    Default Re: Seeing a stripper on the side

    Hey Guys, so she flaked this evening but she wants to meet for dinner tomorrow and she "promises" that she'll make it this time... I've said its no problem but ill have to let her know if I am around. Unfortunately she flaked late so i didnt have much time to make other plans, but i get the idea and i'll look to employ that tactic if im in a similar situation in the future.

    Tomorrow then, we have a narrow window - i finish work at 5, she starts work at 7 - so we arent going to have time for dinner AND sex. Obviously i mainly want the latter and i think she does as well, but im not totally sure and i dont quite know how to achieve this in a subtle manner.

    My plan so far is to have her meet me after work at my hotel, and then ill tell her that im not ready and she'll have to come up while i finish preparing. Seems a bit lame but i think itll probably be okay - i can do this in a non-threatening manner and be cool about it, and then once in the room i'll actually start getting ready. Its the best i can come up at this point - If you guys have better ideas then feel free to share :-D

    @I.M.Mortal

    To clarify your point about the VIP area - its not a private area where they do lap-dances, its just a section of the club where VIPs sit and watch the stage. It's just a roped off section that is slightly more private than the main part. The bit where they do private dances is a different area and yeah, the club charges you to go there.

    Your point about the loss of earnings is right - I am sure that she is into me but she is quite simply flakey as fark. I'm fairly certain that she isn't in this for the money because in all the time we have spent together i haven't given her any...

    Thanks for all of your help so far on this little escapade! :-)

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    Default Re: Seeing a stripper on the side

    Gnah, she flaked again - luckily I have made plans this time so it's not all bad, however I did call her up on it and she got upset, and I'm not happy with how we left it... She insists she does want to see me and that I should continue to call her and text her so I'm really confused because some of her actions suggest otherwise... One minute I'm getting a lot of IOIs the next she doesn't wanna see me cuz she is tired. She says that I don't understand and that being a stripper is really demanding and she can't help it, which I can kind of see... We had a fairly long and slightly awkward conversation and left it with me saying that I don't know when I'll next see you but I'll text you before I come to town next time... I'm really not sure what to do now... I don't see why she would lead me on if she wasn't interested in me, particularly after I called her out on it


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