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    Default So I need to reframe - HELP!

    So I was the PUA in the beginning.. i had the job and lifestyle.. she was not working..

    dating 4 weeks... slept 1st night.. said she doesnt want to be that girl and hasnt let me in yet..

    Now he has new job.. and doesnt want to make plans.. just says have to wait and see next week... said thur and fri she will probab be drinkin with class mates.. (fine me 2 probab)


    I confess that i prefer i like phone talking and always call because im like that... last night was worst phone chat... she ended it saying.. i think im going to go to bed.. talk 2 u 2moro...

    SO.. As it stands i am the CHASER (reacher).

    Preety much I just want to shag her 1 or 2 more times but cant get the right scenario... as it stands im too easy for her..


    HOW DO I CHANGE THE FRAME, I WANT HER TO ASK ME TO HANG OUT!?

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    Default Re: So I need to reframe - HELP!

    Flirt with her. Then, when you feel that she's attracted to you, ask her out.

    The bill is 25 dollars.

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    Default Re: So I need to reframe - HELP!

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Flirt with her. Then, when you feel that she's attracted to you, ask her out.

    The bill is 25 dollars.
    Hmm thanks! We talk everyday.. However today nothin... Should i intiate with something funny? Or keep playin it hard to get ... Atm im trying the freeeze..

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    Default Re: So I need to reframe - HELP!

    Playing hard to get is good if she's attracted to you, otherwise she couldn't care less about you dude.

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    Default Re: So I need to reframe - HELP!

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Playing hard to get is good if she's attracted to you, otherwise she couldn't care less about you dude.
    Thanks dude. Gottttfa worse i messed up i just met ur twin and got afc snd she kept resoondin one word and is bein offf farrrrfk this butch.

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    Default Re: So I need to reframe - HELP!

    Flirt more. Change your routine. Be a little harder to reach. If she's reaching for your attention without you intiating then you know she's attracted to you and wants to be a priority. Dont build so much report. It sounds like you might enter the friendzone pretty quickly if you keep this up for the next month or two.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: So I need to reframe - HELP!

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Flirt more. Change your routine. Be a little harder to reach. If she's reaching for your attention without you intiating then you know she's attracted to you and wants to be a priority. Dont build so much report. It sounds like you might enter the friendzone pretty quickly if you keep this up for the next month or two.
    Thanks... Heres the latest convo- im fuck preety much. She was keen 1 day before this.. this was last night.. sunday evening..

    THIS IS PAINFUL! TO READ BEWARE...


    12/10/2014 22:00:10: me: Hey babe, just got back from longgg day.

    12/10/2014 22:00:27: me: Def thought i saw ur twin 😄

    12/10/2014 22:00:55: her: Was she fit?

    12/10/2014 22:00:56: her: Lol

    12/10/2014 22:01:02: me: She was alright

    12/10/2014 22:01:10: me: Booty was in check😉

    12/10/2014 22:01:38: her: Gee thanks (roll eyes)

    12/10/2014 22:03:46: me: Jokies, she had a cute face

    12/10/2014 22:04:02: me: With blonde fifi eyes.

    12/10/2014 22:04:52:her: Cool

    12/10/2014 22:10:03: me: U were right about squirrels tofay

    12/10/2014 22:10:37: me: They are vicious

    12/10/2014 22:18:05: me: <image omitted>

    12/10/2014 22:18:31: me: Which one do u think was mine😄

    12/10/2014 22:41:59: me: babe quick question abt ur landlord situaion. Quick chat?

    12/10/2014 22:58:18: her: I'm busy atm- what's the q?

    12/10/2014 23:14:25: me: Nw, it was just abt bills.

    12/10/2014 23:14:51: me: Wht bills can u exclude marsh frm paying since u owe the flat

    12/10/2014 23:15:11: her: I don't understand?

    12/10/2014 23:15:19: me: We both have to pay all bills

    12/10/2014 23:15:26: me: No like

    12/10/2014 23:15:40: me: Does she pay maintenace and agency fees

    12/10/2014 23:16:23: her: Well obviously not but she (should) pay part of the service grand

    12/10/2014 23:16:33: her: Which is london average 2.5-3.5k a year

    12/10/2014 23:16:41: her: *service charge

    12/10/2014 23:17:37: me: Ahhh ok. But out of goodwill

    12/10/2014 23:17:44:me: U dont make her pay?

    12/10/2014 23:17:52: her: Service charge

    12/10/2014 23:17:57: her: I don't

    12/10/2014 23:18:07: her: But then again she pays 40 quid a week

    12/10/2014 23:18:13: her: It's not like ur standard arrangement

    12/10/2014 23:19:23: me: Yh yh of course, your besties

    12/10/2014 23:20:03: me: My mate askin me to move in and do the same.. He owes the flat

    12/10/2014 23:20:12: me: *owns

    12/10/2014 23:20:25: her: So no service charge?

    12/10/2014 23:20:33: me: Yup!

    12/10/2014 23:20:39: me: Wood green tho...

    12/10/2014 23:21:11: me: 750 in rent ...

    12/10/2014 23:21:36: her: Hmmm

    12/10/2014 23:21:56: her: Seems like a lot for the area but if ur not paying service charge

    12/10/2014 23:21:58: her: Then that would make up for it

    12/10/2014 23:22:26: me: Thats what i thought, went to view the flat today

    12/10/2014 23:22:48: her: It'll have cross rail as well although idk when thtll be done

    12/10/2014 23:23:10: her: What's it like?

    12/10/2014 23:24:59: me: Hopefully soon..Reallllyyy nicee, the room and living was on point

    12/10/2014 23:25:05: me: Brand new

    12/10/2014 23:25:43: me: Think he bought it for 400- 500... Like 2 yrs ago

    12/10/2014 23:25:56: her: Yeh makes sense

    12/10/2014 23:26:25: me: House wise perfect..

    12/10/2014 23:26:32: me: Its he area really..

    12/10/2014 23:26:37: me: *the

    12/10/2014 23:30:02: me: im goin to view it again on tuesday night

    12/10/2014 23:30:48: me: Make sure.. hes hostin me a dinner partylol

    12/10/2014 23:31:51: her: Why?

    12/10/2014 23:31:55: her: What's he like more importantly

    12/10/2014 23:37:21: me: hes fine, mate from uni

    12/10/2014 23:38:01: me: Lived with him in 2nd yr

    12/10/2014 23:38:43: me: Think he sounds too keen?

    12/10/2014 23:38:54: her: Lol idk

    12/10/2014 23:39:20: me: Tbf he offered to even cut gas bill for me...

    12/10/2014 23:40:12: me: Anwyays u all preped for college?

    12/10/2014 23:40:39: her: New builds don't have has

    12/10/2014 23:40:41: her: *gas

    12/10/2014 23:40:54: her: I don't have a gas bill

    12/10/2014 23:45:26: me: Lol of course electric only

    12/10/2014 23:45:45: me: Hmm will seee

    12/10/2014 23:51:05: me: Weathers lookin breezy

    12/10/2014 23:51:21: me: U bustin out rick ross 2moro

    12/10/2014 23:52:07: her: ?

    12/10/2014 23:52:41: me: The big ole furry coat

    12/10/2014 23:52:57: me: Grey one

    12/10/2014 23:53:10: her: Ah ye idk

    12/10/2014 23:53:13: her: Think it's gna rain

    12/10/2014 23:53:16: her: So probs not

    12/10/2014 23:54:20: me: Weatherman never lies

    13/10/2014 00:01:02: me: Did u go tame on shoppin today missy

    13/10/2014 00:02:32: her: Yep

    13/10/2014 00:10:24: me: Ha let rona card rest.

    13/10/2014 00:11:12: me: U go for the blazerss or cardis

    13/10/2014 00:11:31: her: Either or


    WHAT DO I DO!?


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