Re: college game -- first date PERFECTION?
I'm still in college and I took all of my dates to bowling as a first date. Might sound cheesy but it's kinda turned into my thing.
Bowling can be really competitive thus you get to do a lot of teasing and touching.
I got to smack a few fine butts while teasing like: "You go girl!" without thinking all that kino process like: "Do I touch her arm first? Okay, easy now, juuuust a brush..."
My kino process was only 2 steps, smack her ass, kiss her.
Bragging aside, coffee dates are cute and all but as lenric said they're boring. My current gf and I are together for a year now and we've never been to a "coffee date".
You can always "talk" and "get to know each other" while doing more active stuff. Actually, once you get her into that energetic state you don't ever need to worry about "subliminally" making her talk about herself. She'll just do it naturally because she enjoys everything about you and the date.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.