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Thread: Input on girls with BF's

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    I would appreciate your sage wisdom on this.

    In the past few months I've been single I probably #/kiss/F closed one or more decent girls a week, for what ever reason the few I really connected with have a BF, we could get into a deeper convo on you want what you cant have, but I'm well aware. So now I have K closed one and F closed an other as of last week. Even though I've been in the game for a while I haven't experienced too many women with BF's to this point, so it leaves me perplexed as to what to do next. It isn't the morality of the issue, I know that a girl with a BF wouldn't be hanging out with me if things were good in the relationship.

    So, in your experience are women with BF's worth pursuing something beyond hooking up?

    I know you can argue to go find a women that is single, but at my age (31) I feel most of the women I've dated/met in their mid to late 20's that are worth while are in a relationship, the rest are crazy and/or damaged goods.

    Thanks in advance for your help
    -JimmyG

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    Default Re: Input on girls with BF's

    Personally I disapprove hooking up with girls who are not single, however... there's a really good bonus: it keeps things simple.

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    Default Re: Input on girls with BF's

    I personally would avoid a girl with a boyfriend/fiance/husband...
    the drama isn't worth it.

    There are PLENTY of actual SINGLE women out there.

    A girl who is willing to cheat on her boyfriend WITH you, is probably gonna be willing to cheat ON you with another guy down the road.


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    Default Re: Input on girls with BF's

    There's no moral issue or high ground on the subject. It is simply your choice. If they are not happy with their current partner and are willing to leave then by all means, if you think you got it then go for it. In saying that however, if they are fine with their current relationship but walk and act like they are single, run away. Those type of girls don't value attachment until later years when their clock is ticking.

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    Default Re: Input on girls with BF's

    Figure out what you want on your own pace. Everyone is different and the resl truth of it all is that everyone is always learning something new--especially when it comes doen to themselves. Its why most people are single regardless of how many partners they have. They tend to feel insuficent or not ready to commit which is perfectly fine. In your world you are your own ruler. So learn how your world works. Figure out if you really care about people who cheat on their partners with you or if you are still just trying to see and learn more about the world of relationships till you know what you solidly want. Dont follow society's ideal of what the real path is. You have to figure it out for yourself. Thats part of the exciting factors and half the battle. Stick by your principals because thats the kind of person you want to be
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Input on girls with BF's

    Thanks for the input guys

    T-Mal, I hear what you are saying and the thought crossed my mind of course, but I've been to that point in a relationship in the past where I was about to cheat and so were they (Or they possibly did) so I fully believe people cheat for a good reason. Also I wouldn't go through with it in a Fiance/husband situation, THAT sounds like too much drama.

    Grey2fox, I hear you man, it is very situation based, Im gonna hang out with one of the girls today and "talk", we'll see how that goes.

    artandale, that is pretty much where I am coming from, seeing if this is something I really want/care about.

    Thanks guys, I'll keep you posted
    - JimmyG


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